And what did you want?
To call myself beloved,to feel myself beloved on this earth."
- Raymond Carver
The basics. I am 59, twice divorced (don't run yet!), professionally employed and living in Saco. I am kind, caring, compassionate, passionate and low maintenance. Financially and emotionally stable. Currently pursuing my BA in English Lit (5 credits shy of graduating), with the dream of teaching within my grasp.
I'm a chardonnay-sipping, charcoal-grilling, kind of guy, who is as comfortable reading poetry as he is the financial section, someone who views the grocery store as a museum (I am also a professionally trained chef). I am a man who will do his best to make you laugh, help you relax, encourage you think outside the box, and prompt you look at the world from a different perspective. I'm generous with my time and emotions, but also enjoy alone time. I will have your back when the going gets tough and give you the shirt off my back at a moments notice.
I'm looking for...
I'm looking for a Sunday kind of love. You know what I mean by a Sunday kind of love, don't you? It's that smooth, easy, effortless kind of love. It's that first cup of coffee, Boston Globe (or the NY Times) spread out on the bed, jazz playing in the background kind of love. It's that silence that says everything kind of love. It's that working in the yard, dirty hands, finger tips smelling like tomato plants - or mowing the lawn - kind of love. It's that "have a great time hangin' with the girls, see you when you get home" kind of love. It's that knowing a great kiss is more about lips than about tongue kind of love. Real.Natural. The way love is supposed to be kind of love.