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poinsettiafarm

27 Cupertino, CA Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:40am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English, Chinese

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a native Chinese, recent college grad and looking for a serious relationship. I like books, beautiful music, cartoons, gardening, sports and things that make me happy. I like talking over coffee or tea on a nice weekend afternoon.

I'm not a religious person, but I do believe in good virtues and true love.
I went through a long distance relationship in college. It was not the right thing for me. Now I just want to be with someone who lives close.
Looks wise, I'm definitely not ugly. And I get compliments quite frequently. But I think beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. We all have different tastes. So I will just leave it as that to avoid sounding
narcissistic :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, all of my close friends and most of my family relatives think I am a funny person. I like jokes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Um, I'm not quite sure. The very first thing they notice is probably the fact that I am East Asian, have long hair, and am somewhat tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books:
红楼梦 Hong Lou Meng
水浒传 Shui Hu Zhuan
Chinese Classic Poetry
City of Falling Angels

Favorite movies:
Kung Fu Panda
Titanic
The Croods

Food:
Chinese (Soup Dumplings, Spicy Crabs, Spicy Shrimps)
Korean
Italian
Vietnamese
Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
(Chinese) Literature
Iced/ Hot Drinks in to-go cups, but I love glass and porcelain cups!
Stuffed Animals
Mirror
English Football (In answer to all the curious messages, I call it English football because I hate the demeaning term s***er and refuse to call it by that name. They say the English invented football so I refer to it as English football as opposed to other "footballs". Oh who am I kidding, there is no other football..
My favorite teams are German and Argentine. I also adore Inter Milan for their Argentine blood. The blue team has always been the only "Milan" in my heart, although I no longer hate the red one as passionately as when I was younger, and am actually having fun watching them play.... Nonetheless, it still frustrates me to hear people use the word Inter, to the point that I may turn off the sound when watching games. I wish they could just go away. Don't give me the correct terminology cr*p. I am a fan, not a saint. I'm in denial. I don't care. Sue me. )
Philz
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
potential career choices, things that I want to do as a job for the rest of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In one of my favorite restaurants enjoying food with family or friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private thing I'm willing to admit is the fact that I am a VIRGIN by choice, a real one, unlike those ones that have done practically everything else.
So being a virgin is mandatory for any potential boyfriend. Please don't bother if you are not.
In contrary to stereotype, I am a normal, rather attractive person.
I'm still a virgin because....
I haven't met a guy that I can truly love with all my heart.
My past relationships never last very long, due to bad timings, different career paths, long distance, graduations, etc.
And, well, also because I only dated nice guys. They were all very considerate, respectful, nice guys that I met in school. And they liked me for who I was.

Initially I just wanted it to happen when I met the right person. After my second relationship ended, I decided that I should wait for marriage or at least engagement. The way I see it, virginity is the most precious gift we can give to our wife/husband. A potential boyfriend shouldn't have a problem with this.

(EDIT: IF YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN AND FOR SOME REASON FEEL THE NEED TO LECTURE ME ON SEX, VIRGINITY OR SOCIAL TREND, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. I AM NOT HERE TO LISTEN TO WHAT YOU PEOPLE HAVE TO SAY. BEING A NON-VIRGIN DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY PUT YOU ON THE HIGH GROUND TO GIVE ADVISES, NOR DOES IT MAKE YOU A RELATIONSHIP SAGE. SO YOU KNOW MORE ABOUT SEX, BIG DEAL!! WHY SOME OF YOU COULD FEEL SO SUPERIOR LIKE AN ALL MIGHTY KNOW IT ALL RELATIONSHIP PHD IS TOTALLY BEYOND ME.

SEXUAL EXPERIENCES DO NOT EQUAL RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCES, INTELLIGENCE, WISDOM, OR SUCCESS. AND NO, I DO NOT NEED TO HEAR ABOUT STRANGER MEN'S SEXUAL EXPERIENCES OR VIEWS OR THEORIES. THEY ARE DISGUSTING. STOP. PLEASE JUST STOP.

READING BAD LOGICS MAKES ME AWFULLY MAD AND I TRULLY SINCERELY PREFER TO NOT RECEIVE THOSE TYPES OF MESSAGES AT ALL. I HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO, HOPEFULLY YOU DO TOO. SO IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY, PLEASE FOR CONFUCIUS' SAKE JUST KEEP QUIET.

YOU THINK HAVING BEEN INTIMATE WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX MAKES YOU AN ELIGIBLE ADVISOR? THINK. AGAIN. BEING A VIRGIN IS A WELL THOUGHT OUT CHOICE. YOUR BEING A NON-VIRGIN IS MOST LIKELY A RESULT OF ALCOHOL OR HORMONAL IMBALANCE. SO WHO IS WISER NOW???

I HAVE ENOUGH BRAIN CAPACITY AND RELATIONSHIP EXPERIENCES TO MAKE MY OWN DECISIONS. GEEZ, WHAT'S GIVING YOU PEOPLE THE IMPRESSION THAT I AM RELATIONSHIP ILLITERATE AND NEED YOUR LOUSY WELTANSCHAUUNG TO SAVE THE DAY???)

(Edit. Edit. Once again. What on earth do I need to do to get rid of you stupid perverts? If you are not a virgin, there is no point in writing to me. You are wasting my time. Shut your mouth and stop asking me questions. Keep them to yourself, go away, do whatever, just leave me alone cuz I don't care!!! You think for a 20 something like me, I haven't thought about all your stupid questions before? You are not as thought provoking as you think you are. And stop showing me your virgin statistics. It makes you look like a clown. MIND YOUR OWN DAMN BUSINESS. GO BACK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND.)
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are:
looking for a long-term girlfriend
"preferably but not a must" mainland Chinese who lives in the Bay Area
a decent person
knowledgable, fun to talk to
free of ex-girlfriend issues
older than me, taller than me,
And must be a Virgin like myself.
(Pics are appreciated)

You should not message me if you have crazy things to say about what I have written so far :(