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25 F Cary, NC

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:00am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
First thing you should probably know before reading any further: I'm very happily married to Spark_3 and in an open relationship. Obviously not a typical arrangement for most people and it's pretty new for us too, but it just sort of arose out of our curiosity to experience things with different people, and so far it's been pretty great. I also have an awesome boyfriend and limited free time, so I'm not really looking for anything super serious, but I always enjoy new experiences and making connections with people. : )

I'm in vet school so I'm pretty into animals and currently have two dogs and a snake. I'm interested in exotic species as well as dogs and cats so I've spent some time working with some pretty interesting animals including sea turtles, giraffes, rhinos, raptors, and more!

In my very limited spare time I like to exercise and stay fit as best I can, though I admit I haven't been super great about it recently - I run triathlons but I haven't raced since I completed my first half Ironman race in October 2011. I'm hoping to have more time to get back into it once I'm done with vet school though! I also enjoy playing nerdy card/board games with my husband and our friends - Dominion and Talisman are two of our favorites.

I wouldn't consider myself shy but I can be quiet when I first meet new people. I tend to prefer hanging out with a few people I know well as opposed to going to a big party, but I do really like getting to know new people, especially if we have a lot in common, and once I'm comfortable, I really enjoy being social and can have a great time just sitting and talking and laughing with friends for hours.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm heading into my fourth year of vet school, so that takes up a lot of my life right now! I'll graduate in about a year from now and I'd like to stay in the area, or at least in NC, and hopefully practice small animal medicine with an emphasis on also seeing exotic pet patients.
I’m really good at
- school
- back massages (according to my husband)
- teaching dogs how to do tricks
- triathlons
- cuddling
- wasting time on the internet
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically, maybe that I'm taller than a lot of girls?
If you start talking to me, you'll notice that I have really cute dogs because showing you a picture will probably be one of the first things I do...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: finally started Game of Thrones and love it; Wheel of Time; Mistborn; Heart of Darkness; Water for Elephants; The Story of Edgar Sawtelle; The Secret Life of Bees; The Time-Traveler's Wife; Steven Brust; anything that's not Twilight

Movies: there are so many! I love animated movies and will watch anything by Disney/Pixar/Dreamworks - some of my all-time favorites are The Emporer's New Groove, Lilo and Stitch, and Ratatouille; I also like watching the Oscar nominees every year, though that hasn't happened so much since starting vet school; Harry Potter and LOTR series; honestly I'll watch almost anything, especially if watching it involves cuddling up on the couch!

Shows: BSG! (introduced by a friend and just finished the series fairly recently - loved it!!); Firefly; Dexter; Avatar: The Last Airbender; 30 Rock; The Office; 24; Lost; Breaking Bad (just started this one)

Music: Jump Little Children; Red Hot Chili Peppers; Goo Goo Dolls; Dave Matthews; The Fray; Matchbox 20; Maroon 5; Jars of Clay; Snow Patrol; Boyce Avenue

Food: Pizza! (I could eat it every day); burritos; cheese; sushi; raspberries; dark chocolate; things that involve raspberries and dark chocolate
The six things I could never do without
My husband
My mom and little brother
Dogs (especially mine specifically, but also in general : )
Something to challenge me intellectually
My computer/the internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
turtles!! I'm a captain of the vet school's Turtle Rescue Team for the summer, so I am often thinking about topics such as the best ways to incubate turtle eggs and how to better my shell repair techniques

school-related topics, mostly - at the moment it's how I'm going to actually apply all of this book knowledge that's been crammed into my head over the past three years when I start my clinical rotations.

also how cool it feels on the rare occasions when things come together for me and I get just a hint of what it's like to start feeling like a real doctor!

sex, relationships, and making connections with people
On a typical Friday night I am
Well it's a Friday night right now and I'm sitting on the couch listening to music with my husband, who is playing video games, and we have our two dogs scrunched between us sleeping...I'd say this is fairly typical haha. : ) I like to be more active on the weekends, but Friday nights are usually fairly low key and involve unwinding after a week of school and studying.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
At the moment, the open relationship thing is pretty private, at least from most of our friends and family. But since that might not count as private on a dating website, maybe I'll admit that my husband and I play Magic...
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you think we'd get along!
you're polyamorous or in an open relationship and want to make like-minded friends : )