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polar_

31 M Staten Island, NY

My Details

Last Online
May 21, 2006
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Rather not say
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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apparently this is mandatory, so here is my paragraph about myself.

I am quiet, thoughtful, and i think that's all
What I’m doing with my life
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learning and waiting, taking in all of the information that i can, trying to make sense of it all.
I’m really good at
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listening and working with computers.
The first things people usually notice about me
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usually they don't. i am very quiet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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a - anything by neal stephenson, william gibson (neuromancer is my favorite book ever), harry mulisch (last call is also my favorite book), roald dahl, kurt vonnegut, david macaulay, christopher van allsburg. also "godel, escher, bach", "a portrait of the artist as a young man", "catch-22", "anna karenina", and lots of other stuff, both fiction and non-fiction. i also read some manga, including shirou masamune (appleseed, ghost in the shell, dominion, orion), otomo katsuhiro (akira, domu), and azuma kiyohiko (yotsubato, azumanga daioh). i also enjoy looking at the pictures in books about architecture, graphic design, interior design, and photography. i know that's not really reading.

b - hmmm, i enjoy movies of all types, mostly foreign and weird. a good way of putting it is that i enjoy movies that emphasize atmosphere, mood, style, and ambience over action and dialogue. a few favorites are fellini's 8 1/2, 2001, blade runner, avalon, stalker, dolls, hana-bi, casablanca, citizen kane, electric dragon 80000v, hero, magnolia. this is a very small list. speaking of directors, i generally like fellini, miike takashi, miyazaki hayao, kurosawa akira, kitano takeshi, tsukamoto shinya, and christopher cunningham.

c - the same with movies, there are way too many to list. i tend to gravitate towards instrumental music (i find words and talking distracting). i like most genres (electronic, rock, classical (of all periods), post-rock (shoegazing, as it is sometimes known) ambient, and techno (although not so much on the dance side)). a few longtime favorites of mine are explosions in the sky, mogwai, sigur ros, the beatles, beethoven, underworld, the chemical brothers, the streets, art-school, mozart, the brilliant green, the pillows, the orb, gavin bryars, air, and m83. but i will listen to mostly anything.

d - i like most kinds of food (although nothing too mild or too spicy). japanese is my favorite, however.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
very generally: art (including everything above, anything visually and mentally stimulating), companionship (not a lot of people, just a few that i know well and are comfortable with), stability (financial/emotional, knowing that things will remain as they are until i change them), my physical health, modern technology (nerdy i know, but being easily connected, able to access information and talk to people quickly is not something that i want to do without), and solitude (when i want it).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a woman in michigan.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
being a wild and crazy guy... from my couch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm sorry, if you want to know anything you'll have to message me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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you don't mind talking to someone who doesn't always enjoy talking.