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poloryan22

25 / M / gay / Single

Sacramento, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces and it matters a lot
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Spontaneous, Creative, and Emotional.

My Self-Summary

Well, I've never been in a relationship before, so I don't really know what I'm looking for here, but I know that somebody else would be nice. I've only been out for a short time, since October 2007, so being "gay" still feels new and foreign for me, but I'd like to believe that I've come to a place where I could allow someone to accompany me on my journey. One of the things I've noticed about my attractions, however, is that they vary greatly from guy to guy: one time it's a chiseled Aryan god, another it's a short and chubby guy, next it's a tall quiet guy, next it's a twinky asian guy. I have this ability to read into people quickly and easily, and the thing they all had in common was that they were "good people" and I could see a lasting friendship in them if not a relationship, so I really have no idea who might come along next, but I know that I'm gonna need to be able to see a good friendship in him if anything else is to ever happen.

Also, I've just started delving into astrology and find it really interesting in how accurate some of the observations are--and they're not all stupid universal truth phrases, like, "You sometimes have a hard time remembering dates occasionally." And since I lie on the Pisces/Aquarius cusp, I exhibit aspects of both, although I am still very strongly a water sign.

Recently, I've been actively involved in my own physical betterment, concentrating on better nutrition and maintaining a moderate level of physical activity. Not only did I get a gym membership, but I'm using it as well and I'm loving it: watching my body transform and seeing my goals come to fruition is exhilarating and has only fueled my desire to continue along this path.

I have a bird, and I love her very much--probably more than I could love myself. She is a 24 year old cocketiel, but I've had her for the past 8 years. She's nearing the end of her life, however, and merely the thought of her life ending brings me to tears. I have no doubt that I will be crying for a month straight when she does pass, so I try to cherish what little time we do have left.

Music is a huge part of my life; if I was to classify my tastes, I would have to say I'm a pop-purist in that I love pop, but not limited to Britney, Beyonce, and the Backstreet Boys. There are countless artists that I could list that I enjoy, and the list continually grows when I find a new artist. Besides pop, I enjoy listening to indie, jazz, classical, alternative, instrumental, R&B, dance/club, rock, oldies, and an assortment of unclassifiable artists. Music is my way of delving deep into myself and really understanding who I am; music allows me to at will access my emotions and deal with situations that I would otherwise try to bury. Through this, I have relieved a great deal of stress in my life.

Super-heroes have always been my secret fantasy, delving so deep within myself at times as to believing I actually had supernatural abilities--that's a Pisces for you. Growing up it was always Spiderman and X-Men, and now that I'm all growed up, it'll have to be Heroes that has captured my heart.

Well, I could hypothetically talk forever here, so I guess I should save something for later. Talk to you soon :)

What I’m doing with my life

At the moment I am a student at CSUS working on my BA in Film Studies with an emphasis in Video Production. Initially I entered the program with the intentions of making music videos for a living, but I've cranked out a couple short films thus far and have really enjoyed the process. So, at this point, anything is possible. Also, as a means of making myself more familiar with the music industry, I have gotten a job as a Video Disk Jockey, or VJ, at a local gay bar, in which I completely love the work.

I’m really good at

I'm really intuitive. I don't want to claim that I'm an excellent judge of character, but I do have this strange ability to understand people on a deeper level much more quickly than the average person. I'm also really good at video games--especially the old ones like Super Mario Brothers or Super Mario World. I love playing fighting games like Mortal Kombat and Soul Calibur, and I enjoy Horror RPGs like the Resident Evil and Silent Hill series.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't know . . . that's a weird question . . . when I'm comfortable and around friends, they'll notice my spontaneity and animated gestures . . . if I really like the music that's one, they'll notice my ridiculous dancing . . . other than that, I tend to be one of those guys that you really don't notice unless I want you to notice me. The friends that I have value me as a really good friend--a friend for life--because I'm supportive, a great listener, fun, give great advice, and am reliable. (It feels really uncomfortable to be tooting my own horn, but how is anybody out there supposed to really know who I am if I don't say anything, right?) As for what made us friends in the first place . . . I don't know.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I don't read all that often, although if I happen to be in bed with a special someone and they were reading something, I'd more than likely pick up a book and begin reading too. I'm a fan of movies, especially fantasy and science fiction films, but I pretty much enjoy any movie that I can loose myself in. As for music, I don't have the space to list all the music that I like, but there is SO many artists that I like, and, more than anything, I enjoy finding a new artist that few people have heard of and exposing them to everybody. And food, I'm a fan of food. I pretty much heart food.

The six things I could never do without

My iPod, sex, my friends, my phone--purely for the convenience, not because I'm attached to it--my family, and my bird--although I'm gonna have to eventually [tear].

I spend a lot of time thinking about

As arrogant as it sounds, I spend a lot of time thinking about me. I journal a lot as a means of working through specific life circumstances, and many entries, if not all of them, revolve around me and my relationship with those around me. Most of the time, I journal as a means of bettering my relationship with the people I spend time with; otherwise, I journal about certain feelings and emotions that are swimming around in me in hopes of understanding them. When I'm not journaling, I'm usually listening to music and, thus, creating music videos in my head.

On a typical Friday night I am

Working, but then I try to go out with friends, have a drink or two, and, most importantly, dance dance dance!! :D

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I REALLY like sex, like, A LOT, and I am dying to finally be able to settle down with someone that I truly connect with on many levels, one of the most important being a sexual level.

You should message me if

You should message me if you want to. I like to talk to people, I like conversing, and I generally like people.