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femme, extroverted, and optimistic

My self-summary Propose an edit

I´m a polyamorous femme gal who has a few lovely folks I´m dating but who´s interested in meeting more folks to see what develops!
Ultimately I´m interested in developing a deeper long-term relationship with someone I´m compatible with, but I know that type of thing can´t be forced - if it´s meant to be, it´ll happen on its own - without either of us forcing it.
If you´re into ´personality types´, I´m an ENF/TP on the Myers Briggs - so I tend to ´talk out loud´ while making up my mind what I think about things, am *very* intuitive (yes, I will read your mind) and tend to have a very cluttery desk at work (but I always know where everything is!)
I´ve always been attracted to folks more on the masculine or androgynous end of things (including butchier transmen and women). Aesthetically, I love femmes, but that never seems to translate into attraction at a physical level.
So while I´m not the type to ever say never, if you´re more the girly sort odds are you might be wasting a credit by writing me!

If this sounds interesting, send me a smile and I'll drop you a line! If not, good luck in finding what you're searching for here on OkCupid.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I´m lucky to have work I love and believe in, and it takes a lot of my time and energy. i am, however, always able to make room for those I care about. I have a Masters of Social Work and definitely fall on the left end of the political spectrum, if politics are part of your girl 'shopping list'!
I have a broad circle of friends and interests, and tend to be politically active around issues I care deeply about.
I´m a voracious reader, movie-watcher and music lover, who loves a night out on the town dancing and socializing.
I´m also interested in creative writing, videography and photography (on both sides of the camera)

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polyfemmefatale: 839 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children, but doesn't want any
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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