I am looking for friends with a mind/heart connection to date, explore, and share adventures with in an interesting, safe, and respectful arrangement. I'm attracted to many types of women, but I tend to be especially attracted to more petite women. The concept of polyamory may be new to you. If you understand polyamory, you'll know that you would not necessarily be a "third" but rather another part of my life and/or depending on everyone's mutual interests, my wife's. If you are interested in knowing more or exchanging experiences with this, let's talk.
I am vegetarian that occasionally will eat fish but that is become increasingly less often. I don't do drugs and pretty much don't drink alcohol at all but you can do whatever makes you happy. I'm surrounded by friends with a variety of recreational preferences. I've been there, done that. Wasn't always a square. I'm not here to change anyone. If we have chemistry and feel an attraction to each other, that should include you continuing to be who you are and I the same.
I'm a bit of a workaholic, as a Construction Manager, I work full time, running my own company and am involved in an extensive remodel of our home. I am also typically involved in some form of study. Believe it or not, I manage to do all that and still have time for personal interests.
I am also physically active. I enjoy hiking, bike riding, and a few other things that get the heart pumping. We are Burners, in fact we met on the Playa. If you know what that is then you understand the bond, if not I'd be happy to share it with you.
I enjoy the great outdoors. I respect nature and do my best to conserve resources and protect the environment. I'm most at home in the mountains, and have a great appreciation for beaches, forests, and deserts. I'm always up for camping, although our motor home has gotten me spoiled with comfortable accommodations..
According to my wife , I'm optimistic, socially conscious, ambitious, modest, strong, tender, spontaneous, practical and have a dry sense of humor that hopefully will make you smile. I'm a bit complicated but really quite simple. I have a libidinous streak, but try to not let it cloud my judgement.
I am polyamorous and YES my wife knows that. If you're still curious, keep reading. If that turns you off, stop right now and move on. It's not for everybody, we get that and are not here to persuade you to change. My wife and I are in full agreement with our lifestyle. We feel this part of our relationship has added passion, trust and depth to our commitments to each other. Nearly all of us either knows someone personally or has heard of someone cheating on their partner. We prefer an honest approach to our lives. Although the concept may be foreign to you, this sort of agreement has been around for centuries in various cultures. There are numerous books and websites on the subject as well.
In response to a few of my early respondents: Please don't bother with the hate mail. If I contacted you and don't hear back, I understand you're not interested. If I did not contact you first, please don't reach out and tell me how wrongly I live my life. The right of diversity is part of what makes our country so great.