First, let me start off by saying that we are a happily married
couple. We have been married 5 years now. I am a 24 year old Bi,
white female, 5' 2" 210 pounds. My husband is a 24 year old white
male, ex army, 5'11" 250ish pounds. We own our own home and live in
Rhinelander Wisconsin. We are happy with our lives and with each
other but we have decided that we would like to add a third person
to our relationship. A sister wife as they are commonly referred
to. We have put many hours and days and weeks of serous thought and
consideration into this. We are a mature, sane couple and we have
decided that a polygamous or polyfidelity marriage is what we both
want. It would be for the both of us not one or the other, and I
want to be clear here, we aren't looking for sex. Yes, of course
sex is an important part of a healthy relationship in our opinion.
Of course, sex will be a part of the relationship ( potentially
along with future children) with this person but while the female
half is bi, she doesn't look at this as a way to expand her sexual
experience, (neither does he for that matter!) she wants this for
the concept of a sister wife and everything that goes with that,
someone to share our lives with that she can form an intimate
emotional bond with. I believe if the "right" woman were introduced
then a sexual relationship COULD POSSIBLY form but I know that she
would be perfectly happy for the rest of her life never "being
with" another female sexually weather in the context of just a one
on one relationship between her and another woman or in the context
of a threesome. Moving beyond that though, we want to find someone
else to share our life with, someone that can enjoy us and we can
enjoy them. Someone that we can fall in love with, and who will
love us in return, as a husband and a sister wive. Someone to share
the good times and the bad with us just like we already do with
each other. To be clear, we are not coming at this (being poly)
from any type of religion. It's just something my wife and I both
feel very strongly that is the right thing to do for our family. As
far as religion, most would consider us to be agnostic with pagan
tenancies. I would say we believe more in the concept of P.L.U.R.
We both believe in the live and let live philosophy.
To us, Polyfidelity is the practice of having multiple (equally devoted) mates...a form of polyamorous group marriage where all members consider each other to be equally primary partners, sexually intimate exclusively with their mates in the group.
Polyfidelity is NOT strictly polygamy (though it IS a form of polyamory, just as polygamy is.) Polygamy comes in the form of polygyny (a male with more than one wife) and Polyandry (a female with more than one husband.) Polyfidelity can be practiced by a M/F couple (who are married or primary mates) with another couple or a third mate (male or female) and this is considered a Vee or a triad (a triad is not about three-somes/three way sex and being a third wheel...otherwise this isn't polyfidelity!) Polyfi is about love first...not sex first...a group marriage...family. Sex is naturally a part of romantic love in poly, just as in monogamy (an important part of it but not the whole focus.)
Anyway, more about us... As you can see we are both a bit nerdy, and we aren't into wild parties or overly crazy shenanigans.
Let's not be confusing here though, we LOVE to laugh and have fun. We are constantly playing little pranks on each other or having a pillow or tickle fight.
We like having bonfires, and going camping. He likes hunting, camping, fishing, offroading, and 4 wheeling. Typical guy things... she likes music, movies, and crafts. (and more but she's not great at talking about herself :P)
On a quiet night in, we both enjoy nerding out and watching sci fi like caprica, firefly, battlestar galactica, stargate, and a bunch of others.... :)
We are both dorks and proud :P We're not exactly the most social people in the world but we have our core group of friends and that's the way we like it...
We have an amazing 3 soon to be 4 year old son. He is the light of our life :D He is insanely cute and he knows it! He's very well behaved for his age and we are constantly getting comments on that fact.
To be honest what we are looking for is simply put just a genuine good person that we can be friends with and that is interested in letting that friendship grow into a truly beautiful relationship between all involved. We aren't looking for someone to fill a specific roll in our lives (ie: homemaker, breadwinner, or anything in between) We already have that covered. We are just looking for a special person to expand our love to and who can in return love us. We are very open to who our potential match could be.
Well, this is already getting really long ... hahaha .. figured that would happen. Such is life. Just message us if we seem like what you are looking for, we're pretty much open books, and will answer any questions you have for us :) Also, we have a facebook we can share that has many more details on it.
To us, Polyfidelity is the practice of having multiple (equally devoted) mates...a form of polyamorous group marriage where all members consider each other to be equally primary partners, sexually intimate exclusively with their mates in the group.
Polyfidelity is NOT strictly polygamy (though it IS a form of polyamory, just as polygamy is.) Polygamy comes in the form of polygyny (a male with more than one wife) and Polyandry (a female with more than one husband.) Polyfidelity can be practiced by a M/F couple (who are married or primary mates) with another couple or a third mate (male or female) and this is considered a Vee or a triad (a triad is not about three-somes/three way sex and being a third wheel...otherwise this isn't polyfidelity!) Polyfi is about love first...not sex first...a group marriage...family. Sex is naturally a part of romantic love in poly, just as in monogamy (an important part of it but not the whole focus.)
Anyway, more about us... As you can see we are both a bit nerdy, and we aren't into wild parties or overly crazy shenanigans.
Let's not be confusing here though, we LOVE to laugh and have fun. We are constantly playing little pranks on each other or having a pillow or tickle fight.
We like having bonfires, and going camping. He likes hunting, camping, fishing, offroading, and 4 wheeling. Typical guy things... she likes music, movies, and crafts. (and more but she's not great at talking about herself :P)
On a quiet night in, we both enjoy nerding out and watching sci fi like caprica, firefly, battlestar galactica, stargate, and a bunch of others.... :)
We are both dorks and proud :P We're not exactly the most social people in the world but we have our core group of friends and that's the way we like it...
We have an amazing 3 soon to be 4 year old son. He is the light of our life :D He is insanely cute and he knows it! He's very well behaved for his age and we are constantly getting comments on that fact.
To be honest what we are looking for is simply put just a genuine good person that we can be friends with and that is interested in letting that friendship grow into a truly beautiful relationship between all involved. We aren't looking for someone to fill a specific roll in our lives (ie: homemaker, breadwinner, or anything in between) We already have that covered. We are just looking for a special person to expand our love to and who can in return love us. We are very open to who our potential match could be.
Well, this is already getting really long ... hahaha .. figured that would happen. Such is life. Just message us if we seem like what you are looking for, we're pretty much open books, and will answer any questions you have for us :) Also, we have a facebook we can share that has many more details on it.
