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polytim

47 M Windsor Locks, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I spend fifteen minutes a day trying to levitate. Maybe it's five minutes but it feels longer.

I'm doing my thing. Caring for my parents to feel loved and valued for who they've been in this world. Trying to see them out with the same awe they hopefully felt when I wrapped my little hand around their big fingers.
I am mostly looking for friends and interesting conversations but most folks don't really go for that sort of thing on here so I'm cool w the occasional connection.

I do somatic bodywork for a living. I study life and different ideas of what makes it better for me.

I'm interested in off the beaten path ideas and things people do but hesitate to say that because I really don't want my head chopped off or anything. Yuck... So anything else like you train dogs to find mushrooms or have an open relationship but struggle w jealousy.

Anyway.

Thanks.

“I believe in God, but not as one thing, not as an old man in the sky. I believe that what people call God is something in all of us. I believe that what Jesus and Mohammed and Buddha and all the rest said was right. It's just that the translations have gone wrong.”

― John Lennon

Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.

-- Miguel Ruiz

Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to make more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier. The way it actually works is in reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want.

-- Margaret Young
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finding good music, art and books. Really, that's my anchor right now. I do other things, some of which pay in $$ and some that pay in pleasure.
Loving my Pandora lately, sultry, deep women singing like Buika,Nina Simone , Rachel yamagata and misc Latin Cuban fusion... So rich.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastination is my strong point, Filled with moments of great accomplishment.
Bodywork.
Being me, I have a face w a view.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Is the 20% that shows above the water line.
There's really no way you'd expect what's inside this one. But like momma said....

I'm a big guy. I take up space and have a laugh. I can be very quiet in new company or certain company. Gregarious in others.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The spiritual practices of Rumi.
Carlos Castenada's writing's.
The Shack - I didn't really like this book.
Bhagavad Gita
The erotic mind -
The passionate marriage -
Following Atticus
Glass castle
Tom Robbins still life of woodpecker and more.
edward sharp and the magnetic zeros
intereference irish
glan hansard - marketa irglova
Sufi radio
Chuck Prophet
Florence and the Machine
Joan Armatrading
Jai Uttal
The talking heads
Annie Lenox
Nina Simone
Rachel Yamagata
Yaz
Zaz - french singer from that movie w the English kid in the train station and the animatron.
Zena warrior goddess.
Update, 6/1/13 the following still definitely applies.
No! No Led Zepplin or Pink Floyd or the other blonde guy with leather pants and a bandana tied around his thigh screaming into a mic...sorry.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water w lemon
Good pizza
Real connection, conversation.
Scratch a dog behind the ears once in a while.
Massage -
a nice long hot/cold shower,..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life Lotto and the American way of
con-sumerism. Credit cards (Evil Incarnate)
Lgbts&m whatever the acronym is...it's time straight folks came out too!! Be yourself and all. Think they are?? I don't.
When the things I know and my human condition will stop fighting w each other.
Am I an old soul or new? I think newer as time goes by.

Forgiveness
Love
Maturity.
How far I have to go.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing what the M&M won't.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Liberty or is it Libertine
I'm different than anyone you've known.
Someone on a dating site once asked how big my (you know) was, my reply was 6. 1"
I prefer essential oils over cologn/perfume, except agent provacator, that is pure sexiness.
I kissed a boy but didn't like it. I still like him though :)
I have to deal w depression at times.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a brain, a heart and courage.

Even if you are only writing for sex please say something more then Hi there.