I do want good conversation/laughter and to hang out w cool/nice folks that don't need a label. I don't have the ability to emotionally committ right now. I still have emotions and want friendship mostly...I'm off the romance thing at the moment because honestly, it rarely works. So no guarantees here. Ultimately I want to be in love w my best friend...she's going to be a person that i love before i fall in love but once seen, my eye will always go to her. She will have lived life in interesting ways, have been non conventional and not regret the past. She'll have a great mind and live/think off the beaten path but know where and how to live in both worlds.
Sex will be both play and transformative. For however long id like it pretty mono but i am open to poly .
Theatre, music, books, art, good and bad film, weird is a good thing unless its just stupid, amateur attempts of all the above are generally respected.
Ok, so I do want something, somewhere down the line, but I refuse to do it the same old way.
“I believe in God, but not as one thing, not as an old man in the sky. I believe that what people call God is something in all of us. I believe that what Jesus and Mohammed and Buddha and all the rest said was right. It's just that the translations have gone wrong.”
― John Lennon
Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.
-- Miguel Ruiz
Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to make more things, or more money, in order to do more of what they want, so they will be happier. The way it actually works is in reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want.
-- Margaret Young