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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 24
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
My self-summary
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An eclectic, open, irrepressibly free spirit. Motto: Beauty is the truth. A natural living, back to the land, clever and kind sort of person who believes that life is an unimaginable joy that deserves relish and gratitude.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm experiencing it! I moved to the islands to bust out of the two-step rut and live my life naturally and honestly. I spend time with family, grow fruit, run, write, and focus on doing the things that directly feed, nurture, and comfort me and mine.

Well, it's back to the completely clean-shaven look. But will it make me faster??

Update 12/14: Now I've up and done it. Moved to a place with a waterfall and a big splashy pool or two (or three). Of course it involves carving a homestead out of previously untamed grassland, but man is it rewarding to work with bamboo and stone. 'Taint nothing makes one feel manlier than hacking cane and laying concrete ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Climbing trees, barefoot running, forming associations, stringing words together, listening, expressing, giving and receiving love, parenting, holding up my end of long conversations, hacking coconuts, cutting jackfruits, fantasizing—then manifesting, and figuring things out. I don't believe much in impossibilities and am something of a master at workarounds and workovers and workthroughs and all that making lemonade stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm going with either the lack of shoes or the uber-cool Puna hat. Or if I'm eating, they may stare agog at my Fred Flinstone-ish mound of tropical fruit with a "what the heck are you going to do with all that?!" kind of look. If they come a little closer, I'd hope they notice the joyful twinkle in my bright blue eyes :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read just about everything. Bill Bryson is probably my favorite contemporary writer; Robert A. Johnson and his books about ecstatic psychology are game changers; Tolkein and the LoTR moved me unimaginably as a boy and filled me with a love for fantasy that endures today. Born to Run got me psyched to hit the streets. The 80/10/10 Diet by Doug Graham has shaped my life in the last several years...I voraciously consume books about natural living and health, poetry (all of it, with a love for the Persian masters), and, ah heck, everything. I love all sorts of music and connect with it deeply. I'm a believer in synesthesia... Movies? August Rush sums up my irrepressible optimism and faith in outcomes and is so aurally beautiful. The last really good movie I saw was Seven Psychopaths.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Really cool banyan treehouses, tying knots to join bamboo, how damned easy it is to divide and propagate bananas, the book I'm writing, plans for getting fresh fruit in the bellies of needy kids and families...and whatever life happens to be throwing at me, of course.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with family or very close friends. Or possibly laid out in bed thanks to a day filled with labor and road miles (the greatest cure for insomnia is moving that thing). Maybe a nature show on the laptop or a simple dinner at home in front of a roaring campfire.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My toenails are currently painted.
You should message me if
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You refuse to let life beat anything out of you. You have a quirky side and revel in being something that is absolutely, completely, and unapologetically YOU. You believe, like me, that we are perfect beings and you want to connect with someone in a deep and intimate way. You like fruit :) and you find joy in using your body actively. You are open-minded, adventurous, and ready to ride life. It'd also be nice if you're open to actually meeting someone from OKC for reals. After all, life is short and there should be a point to this exercise.

Also, if you see this whole online thing less like a women's play land. I mean, I realize each of you must get scads of messages daily, particularly you ladies with style, but if you've managed to keep from becoming too jaded, and if you don't simply move from shiny object to shiny object, disqualifying potential matches for the minutest of details, well, I'm a deep, real, sincere dude with a heart of gold and the balls to let it show.

I know you are out there, but I don't know just where you are. Will I find you or will you find me?