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portlandsound

42 M Albuquerque, NM

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hi there!

I've decided everyone wants to be loved. Men and women shape the fabric of humankind through these connections. Some choices have brought us joy, and other ones have brought us suffering. Because of these experiences, we make decisions, form biases, and most importantly, learn about ourselves and each other.

Sometimes we decide to repeat mistakes by looking for the same qualities and characteristics that seemed to bring us happiness in our past. Other times, we retreat, and hide our hearts from others to keep pain away. Once in a while, our heart gambles to find a new kind of connection, one based on our experiences, our mistakes, and our intuition about the kind of potential partner we have become, and who might enjoy our company for a long term relationship. I am at that point in my life now.

Here's what I want in a relationship: I love being with someone who enjoys learning, someone who feels passion or desires to find it for herself. So much of life and finding what we want in life centers around understanding not only intellectually, but also emotionally, and that fabric of experience only comes through doing.

I am looking for a partner who is interested in, has begun or has discovered this state of life already for herself. Whether she found her passion through the arts, through science, through gardening, travel, work, exercise, or whatever it might be, I'm likely a good match for you.

For me, I'm passionate about riding bikes, studying Kriya Yoga, writing, laughing with friends, going on adventures, spending time with my kids, working, inventing things, discovering my own spiritual path, and any number of other passions. You will have an intuition if somebody like me might be right for you.

Looking forward to hearing from you!
What I’m doing with my life
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I spend a great deal of time working, and of course, when you have a career, who doesn't? Here's the secret: find what you love to do, and once you discover that calling, going to work doesn't seem like work at all.

Following my dreams. Realize what they are, get inspired and pass it on to others.

Figure out ways to think differently and show other people how to do the same thing. The following is very true, even though it might border on cliche: "What would you do, what would you learn about, what would you aspire to be if you knew you could not fail?"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I really love to sing, and I play several different instruments. I like to compose music, mostly because it's fun. I am also a good teacher.

I am a writer with many facets ultimately, and cascading from that ability lies many other skills.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not really sure. You have to make that call for yourself if you meet me : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I especially respect authors who can write really good comedic fiction. There is so much high-brow/pretentious stuff out there. Piecing together a bunch of fancy words in an interesting way is a craft completed by those who are clever. Finding your own voice and making people laugh through stories is a much rarer art form. Kurt Vonnegut achieved it, so did Hunter Thompson. Who makes you laugh when you read?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mind, my heart, the divine, laughter, exercise and a genuine desire for self-improvement
Here's another set of 6: reflection, inspiration, enthusiasm, leadership, magic, and spirituality

And who can live without adventure, travel, spontaneity, learning, breathing, meditating, inventing, playing music, writing music, breaking the rules, and changing lives?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything and everything. I love learning and following my passions, and the joy in life is discovering new ones.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It totally depends on the Friday. Sometimes I love having friends over to my home, watching my kids laugh and enjoy themselves with their friends. Other times, I like to hit a coffee shop or a bookstore, go to meetups, hang out with friends. The weekends are a muse that should be painted in a beautiful way.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There are so many levels of privacy. Why should I even bother to address that one? Contact me, and find out.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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Anything I have written makes sense to your heart