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possibilitydwe

31 F Laconia, NH

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:34am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
This seems very silly/feels very awkward. I am supposed to "summarize" myself in a little text box. Shall I be witty? Charming? Enticing? Sexy?

How about just being me, and letting the details evolve if you care to get to know me. I could list a bunch of adjectives that, while I'm new to this, I imagine become fairly cookie cutter and meaningless: I'm honest, shy until you get to know me, sweet and affectionate, driven, professional, blah, blah, blah...but that means nothing until you judge for yourself.

I will say that I recently received the best compliment I have ever heard: "You are the most self-aware person I know." The fact that this is more complimentary to me than almost any other cheesy thing someone could say, is fairly telling I think.
What I’m doing with my life
I teach. I write. I read. I parent. I mentor. I laugh. I make mistakes. I learn from them.
I’m really good at
Cliche as it sounds, making people laugh. I was only recently made aware that people think I am really funny; I'm a bit concerned that they are laughing at, rather than with me, but anything that brings a little light to peoples lives is ok by me.

I'm also pretty adept at thinking, analyzing, which unfortunately turns sometimes to over-thinking, over-analyzing, but I suppose that is slightly better than marching through life blindly.
The first things people usually notice about me
Um...I suppose I would have to ask the people who are noticing? What do you notice about me?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I devour them. I could fill pages and pages with my favorite titles--instead I will just list what I'm reading currently, the genres I like, and maybe my top five books of all time...
Currently reading: The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao (because I'm teaching it), Shine (because I'm teaching it) and Cinderella Ate My Daughter, (because, you guessed it, I'm teaching it).

I tend to favor realistic fiction over fantasy/sci-fi but I have recently taking a liking to some dystopian literature. I also enjoy non-fiction, especially the sort that begs me to change my perspective on something important, or challenges rigid ideals.

Top books: The Handmaid's Tale, Native Son, Grapes of Wrath, The Power of One, and Invisible Man.

Movies: Love 'em. Things that make me laugh, things that make me think, things that make me make fun of myself for being so darn cheesy.

Shows: I don't watch much T.V. I am enjoying Orange is the New Black on Netflix currently.

Music: Yes. ( Not the band Yes, just yes, give me music of all genres).
The six things I could never do without
My son, books, conversation, laughter, lovin', learnin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything...all I do is think! But at this very second, I am thinking about whether or not it is wise to create an online dating profile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends on whether or not I received a slurry of essays that week: either grading, or finding friends to have a beer and chat with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not particularly private. If you are worth telling anything to, I will likely tell you anything.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to know more than what one can fill out in a series of little boxes.