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33 Laconia, NH Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:30am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This seems very silly/feels very awkward. I am supposed to "summarize" myself in a little text box. Shall I be witty? Charming? Enticing? Sexy?

How about just being me, and letting the details evolve if you care to get to know me. I could list a bunch of adjectives that, while I'm new to this, I imagine become fairly cookie cutter and meaningless: I'm honest, shy until you get to know me, sweet and affectionate, driven, professional, blah, blah, blah...but that means nothing until you judge for yourself.

I will say that I recently received the best compliment I have ever heard: "You are the most self-aware person I know." The fact that this is more complimentary to me than almost any other cheesy thing someone could say, is fairly telling I think.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I teach. I write. I read. I parent. I mentor. I laugh. I make mistakes. I learn from them.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cliche as it sounds, making people laugh. I was only recently made aware that people think I am really funny; I'm a bit concerned that they are laughing at, rather than with me, but anything that brings a little light to peoples lives is ok by me.

I'm also pretty adept at thinking, analyzing, which unfortunately turns sometimes to over-thinking, over-analyzing, but I suppose that is slightly better than marching through life blindly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! hair is crazy and curly and long and I rarely straighten it so that's pretty noticeable. Perhaps my smirky smile that suggests shyness and innocence to the untrained eye, but something a little more devious for those willing to dig deeper : )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I devour them. I could fill pages and pages with my favorite titles--instead I will just list what I'm reading currently, the genres I like, and maybe my top five books of all time...
Currently reading: Brief Interviews with Hideous Men by David Foster Wallace, I Know This Much Is True by Wally Lamb

I tend to favor realistic fiction over fantasy/sci-fi but I have recently taking a liking to some dystopian literature. I also enjoy non-fiction, especially the sort that begs me to change my perspective on something important, or challenges rigid ideals.

Top books: The Handmaid's Tale, Native Son, Grapes of Wrath, The Power of One, and Invisible Man.

Movies: Love 'em. Things that make me laugh, things that make me think, things that make me make fun of myself for being so darn cheesy.

Shows: I don't watch much T.V. I am enjoying Orange is the New Black and House of Cards on Netflix currently.

Music: Yes. ( Not the band Yes, just yes, give me music of all genres).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son, books, conversation, laughter, lovin', learnin'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything...all I do is think! But at this very second, I am thinking about how to convince my students that writing is fun, why more men don't think sitting around in our undies and watching football and drinking brewski is a fun date idea, and why Tallahassee is so far away.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on whether or not I received a slurry of essays that week: either grading, or finding friends to have a beer and chat with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not particularly private. If you are worth telling anything to, I will likely tell you anything.
You should message me if
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You want to know more than what one can fill out in a series of little boxes.