40 Raleigh, NC
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My self-summary
I make no apologies for who I am. I'm not for everyone and I need an intelligent partner. INTJ
What I’m doing with my life
My ambitions are creative. My main focus right now is my band. My job is a means to an end.
I’m really good at
Loud rock guitar. Singing and writing songs.

Good stereotypical male trait:

I play guitar several hours everyday. My hands are deft and strong. I don't usually meet a jar I can't open
The first things people usually notice about me
That I look like I walked off the Tardis fresh from 1972.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
When it comes to reading or movies I enjoy documentaries, skepticism, humor, sci-fi, horror and gritty 70's stuff.

For music, far too many to list. I like classic rock, vintage psych, vintage heavy metal and stoner rock. Sabbath, Kyuss, Deep Purple, Uncle Acid and the Deadbeats, Graveyard, Pentagram, The Runaways, the Stooges, etc.

Mexican, Italian, Greek, Seafood, Chinese, American if the mood hits me.

Appendix) I love comedy. These are my favorite stand-ups- George Carlin, Bill Hicks, Maria Bamford, Patton Oswalt, Sarah Silverman, Doug Stanhope, Mitch Hedberg, Louis C.K., Chris Rock, Mark Maron, Amy Schumer.....I believe there is no subject that is taboo to laugh at.
The six things I could never do without
My Guitar(s), Music, Books, someone to talk to, sex, air conditioning

Oh.. also air, food, water, and the laws of physics that keep my body from turning into pink goo.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The harmonic minor scale. The overpopulation of the earth. Avocados, avocados kick ass.
On a typical Friday night I am
Building a banjo pyre in tribute to Crom.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really annoyed with this site proclaiming I'm "less well read." I was an English major, trained in journalism and I average about 2 books a month. Do I have to blow James Joyce or something?
You should message me if
You want to watch The Walking Dead with me. You want a partner that is honest, loyal and despises b.s. You want to crank Black Sabbath on vinyl and drink red wine.

You are not particularly religious or uber conservative, and you're not easily offended.

You want to take it easy and date someone before jumping into a long term relationship.

If you are poly or whatever, good for you. I have no interest in being someone's hobby.