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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:15pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a skeptic, a musician and a disappointed optimist.

On the Meyers-Briggs personality test I am an INTJ.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My main focus right now is getting my new band off the ground. My job is just a means to an end. My ambitions are creative. I'm honestly not sure I have the energy to sustain relationship right now. People seem to want more from me than I have available to give.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Naming fictional bands and the fictional albums they record.
I give really great back rubs.
Good stereotypical male trait: I play guitar several hours everyday. My hands are deft and strong. I don't usually meet a jar I can't open.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I look like I walked off the Tardis fresh from 1972.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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When it comes to reading or movies I enjoy documentaries, skepticism, humor, sci-fi, horror and gritty 70's stuff.

For music, far too many to list. I like classic rock, vintage psych, vintage heavy metal and stoner rock.

Mexican, Italian, Greek, Seafood, Chinese, American if the mood hits me.

Appendix) I love comedy. These are my favorite stand-ups- George Carlin, Bill Hicks, Maria Bamford, Patton Oswalt, Sarah Silverman, Doug Stanhope, Mitch Hedberg, Louis C.K., Chris Rock, Mark Maron, Amy Schumer.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Guitar(s), Music, Books, someone to talk to, sex, air conditioning

Oh.. also air, food, water, and the laws of physics that keep my body from turning into pink goo.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The harmonic minor scale. The overpopulation of the earth. Avocados, avocados kick ass.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Building a banjo pyre in tribute to Crom.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really annoyed with this site proclaiming I'm "less well read." I was an English major, trained in journalism and I average about 2 books a month. Do I have to blow James Joyce or something?
You should message me if
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You want to watch The Walking Dead with me. You want a partner that is honest, loyal and despises b.s. You want to crank Black Sabbath on vinyl and drink red wine.

If you are deeply religious, uber conservative or need someone that will support you financially, I'm not for you.

I don't want kids, this will not change.

You are open-minded enough to date a scary bisexual, because bisexuals are totally scary.
Also, this:

I might entertain a long term relationship with the right person. If you need to see me everyday, you are not that person. I don't do clingy.
If you are part of the culture of "the offended" do not message me. I don't like people that are easily offended. I admire people that are made of sterner stuff. There is no subject that it is not okay to laugh at.