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30 M Waterford, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–34
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 9
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i've changed this many times because it's hard getting these things right. the problem is that i'm too self-aware to pretend to offer an honest description of myself--so i might as well start by admitting this, that i find self-summaries nearly impossible to write. on the other hand, i don't want to come across as overly cynical--because i'm here, obviously hoping to meet someone. but dating scares me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
originally from connecticut, i lived in ithaca, new york for awhile, before moving to chicago to begin grad school in political science. in recent news, i moved back to connecticut for maybe a year.

when not writing or 'doing research', i enjoy spending time with/taking care of my dogs (a pointer and a yorkshire terrier).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
following the news, discussing politics, debating social issues & philosophical points, both large and small, and doing so LOUDLY, challenging the untenable assumptions behind your arguments, exposing contradictions and paradoxes, then getting caught in my own hypocrisy, exhausting myself and finally burning out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
it's not healthy for me to think/worry about this stuff. people don't usually notice anything strange (on the outside), i don't think... ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
i can't enjoy bourgeois culture without suffering certain guilt. i appreciate cultural work that's socially conscious and/or politically interesting/insightful on some level. but when that's not available (or when it is available but i find myself in moments of weakness) i do partake in popular culture and excuse it as 'opposition research'.

that said, i'm not "no fun". i have decent taste in movies, music, foods, etc., but listing my favorites in these areas isn't how i like to define or express myself ...i want to remain open to new things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-- taco and beau, my canine companions
-- full beard (which i've had ever since i could grow one)
-- library access (being able to recall books that are checked out)
-- utopian fantasies (class war, punishing oligarchic elites, etc.)
-- venezuela's hugo chavez (R.I.P!) (subject of long-term research)

that's enough for now...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-- the prospect of socialist revolution in my lifetime.
-- how if v. i. lenin were alive, he'd know what to do
-- how to reinforce fence to prevent dogs from escaping

these profiles have a way of making everyone sound self-obsessed and narcissistic, so i think it's important to say that i feel concern for and care a lot about people, humanity. that said, i'm not exactly a 'people person'. i like to be alone, it's probably true that i care more about humanity in the abstract, than concrete individuals around me
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not out on a date--isn't that what you want to know? i'm usually working, sometimes i'll see friends. occasionally i'll be sleeping.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i know more about psychoanalysis than i care to let on (old interest).
You should message me if
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you can be persistent and bold enough to pull me out of my current non-dating state. sorry, it's the only way this is going to happen.

also, be aware that the more perfect you are, and the better you write, the more time it'll take for me to write back to you. if you know a way around this problem, please inform me immediately.