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28 Gastonia, NC Woman


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  • Ages 24-37
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Last online
Jun 11
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Atheism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), LISP (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm just a laid-back dudette.
What I’m doing with my life
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waiting for something to happen
I’m really good at
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actin' a fool, jobs, ugly face contests, making messes, cleaning up other peoples' messes, making pizza, insulting you but with all the love in my heart, smoochin, dancin, prancin, romancin, enhancin, ted danson, fe fi fo fanson, making stupid rhymes
The first things people usually notice about me
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my salty attitude

that I dropped something on the floor/spilled something/got my purse strap caught on something
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: Vonnegut, John Steinbeck, Candide, Feed, The Stranger, The Metamorphosis, Glue, Chuck Klosterman, whatever looks good at Goodwill, books by funny people

movies: I like.. HEAVENLY CREATURES, Arthur, This is England, Candy, The Diving Bell and the Butterfly, Dirty Pretty Things, Velvet Goldmine, The Royal Tenenbaums, etc.

shows: project runway, what not to wear, the english skins, 6ft under, gordon ramsay's kitchen nightmares, anthony bourdain, tabatha takes over, cooking shows sometimes, blind date (actually all dating shows even though they don't really play any on tv anymore)..

music: mostly indie rock... especially Pavement, GBV, Dinosaur Jr., The Breeders, The Strokes, Ty Segall, Mikal Cronin, Archers of Loaf, Superchunk, PJ Harvey, Mazzy Star, Throwing Muses, Bettie Serveert, The War On Drugs, Kurt Vile, Sebadoh, etc etc etc

food: Thai, Vietnamese, Malaysian, Mexican, Spanish, Italian, Indian, Mediterranean, Chinese, pretty much anything foreign and authentic-ish (no weird meats, though)... especially anything spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
dreaming (while asleep)
spicy-ass food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
it's very zen, apparently. i just zone out.. all the psych gurus say it's supposed to be awesome but it makes me less productive, I believe.

also, I think a lot about how rapidly the world is changing now and how it would have been more serene not knowing all that we collectively know now and just to be able to kind of exist and wonder about existence without all this information that is crammed down our throats at present. I like to think about how we've created this reality for ourselves but how easily everything could have been totally different. Trying not to be shit-scared about how all our systems seem so fallible and how things seem to be shooting off the rails. I'm an idealist, for sure, and always have been... but I'm also a realist and sometimes I just feel kind of paralyzed with uncertainty about the future and I feel like that uncertainty is worse for my generation than generations past.. I try not to get bummed out about this stuff but it sure does enter my stream of consciousness fairly often.

Solar flares.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
ya never know.. I go wherever the seat of my pants takes me.. (that's the saying, right?)
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I talk too much during movies and you would probably hate me for it.
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