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72 Fairfax, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55–72
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 5
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Graduated from masters program
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Italian (Poorly), German
My self-summary
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Excitement rules my life but I long for relaxation - the kind that only happens for me with a very special man. Someone whom I can show who I really am.

I go through the world carrying a shield of dazzling intellect and wearing armor of chic, fashionable clothes. I think I’m cutting patterns in the air with my wit but often I’m blindly slashing at those who are standing too close - that is to say close enough for intimacy. When someone gets around all this my heart opens, my body comes alive and I am penetrated down to my deepest core. A flood of caring flows from some secret place inside me that I usually do not know is there - just for him.

While I'm waiting for this to happen I nourish myself with nature and with culture. I hike the hills of Marin and swim in Tomales Bay. I love to lie gasping in the sun, face down on the beach or the grass, after a long swim. Sometimes I imagine the shadow of a lover standing over me.

At night I find it hard to stay home. The siren call of the theater, the opera, the ballet or the symphony pulls at me so I get into my drag, drive to Berkeley or San Francisco and often enjoy the crowd as much as the show.

To live without lies -
This is freedom
As it is to love without doubt.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Healing myself and others.

Enjoying sensation.

Looking at the personal in the political.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Solo performance, lecturing, writing, running groups, dancing, reading people's emotions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The directness of my gaze.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The novels of T.C. Boyle, Monster's Ball, Mozart, macrobiotic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Accurate perception, effective action, compassionate comprehension, deep connection, music and nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The roots of violence and how to heal it.

The emotional energy carried in tissues, fluids and organs.

How all power relationships including those of politics and economics scale up from the family.

How our country is being run by angry babies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the theater or a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am always a little afraid of meeting new people.
You should message me if
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Deep connection and emotionally charged sex interest you, you feel you have something special to offer to the world, strong women don't scare you.