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71 F Fairfax, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 50–71
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Busy Woman Seeks Idle Man For Pleasure And Company

I hope you have time for the opera, the ballet, the theater and many, many concerts. Also for hiking miles and miles up and down the hills of Marin and swimming and kayaking in Tomales Bay. Then there's reading poetry aloud, preparing gourmet meals together, dancing at home, at clubs and in the street and long, languorous days and nights of lovemaking.

I'm looking for a man who is cultured, virile, serious about commitment and available for play.
What I’m doing with my life
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Healing myself and others.

Hosting two radio shows.

Going to lots of opera, ballet, theater and concerts.

Looking at the personal in the political.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking, writing, running groups, cooking, dancing, swimming, reading people's emotions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The depth of my gaze.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The novels of T.C. Boyle, Monster's Ball, Mozart, macrobiotic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Perception, action, comprehension, connection, music and nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The roots of violence and how to heal it.

How all power relationships including those of politics and economics scale up from the family.

How our country is being run by angry babies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the theater or a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a brother who is a convicted felon.
You should message me if
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you are comfortable inventing your life as you go along - getting up and going to bed as the spirit moves you, working only at things you find intensely interesting, trusting that whatever feels good is good.

If your parents loved you enough for you to realize that you are not here to serve or to learn a lesson - although these might happen along the way - but to enjoy yourself.

If you have the freedom to choose excitement over security.