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71 Fairfax, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–71
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 7
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay), Italian (Poorly), German

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My self-summary
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It's easy when we fall in love to toss aside our defenses and rush into each other's arms. The challenge is to stay undefended and vulnerable when the old fears come calling. For this I need to be with a very special man - someone strong and protective, kind and emotionally generous, sexy and sexual.

I'm an ex-New Yorker with a quick wit and a lot of edge - qualities I don't seek in a partner. Professionally I'm in internationally known healer, author and radio host - curious and creative.

In the daytime I'm often out hiking and foraging. At night I'm usually at some cultural even but I would just as soon stay home in the right company. My great expertise is in the physiology of emotions.

Reach for me
as heroes reach for falling banners,
as blind men reach for velvet,
as babies reach for sleep.

Listen -
I am very near,
only an imagination's breath away
those footsteps are my heartbeats.

Come closer -
There is everything to fear
I will set fire to your hopes,
burn your dreams,
and awaken you to paradise.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Healing myself and others.

Hosting two radio shows.

Going to lots of opera, ballet, theater and concerts.

Looking at the personal in the political.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking, writing, running groups, cooking, dancing, swimming, reading people's emotions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The depth of my gaze.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The novels of T.C. Boyle, Monster's Ball, Mozart, macrobiotic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Perception, action, comprehension, connection, music and nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The roots of violence and how to heal it.

How all power relationships including those of politics and economics scale up from the family.

How our country is being run by angry babies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the theater or a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a brother who is a convicted felon.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are comfortable inventing your life as you go along - getting up and going to bed as the spirit moves you, working only at things you find intensely interesting, trusting that whatever feels good is good.

If your parents loved you enough for you to realize that you are not here to serve or to learn a lesson - although these might happen along the way - but to enjoy yourself.

If you have the freedom to choose excitement over security.