Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Vivacious woman with a keen mind, an active body and a high
I'd like to meet a man who thinks deeply about the motives and
consequences of his actions and who asks himself before every
important decision the key question ' What would David Bowie
It takes time to get to know me. I lead with my intellect and leave
everything else in shadow until I feel it's safe enough to come out
and play. You would never guess from the way I enter a restaurant
that the man I am meeting there is my lover. You would never know
from our intense, serious conversation that under the table my foot
is on his thigh. You would never imagine from the way we are
dressed - he bankerly and conservative, I frivolously fashionable -
that we will be spending the rest of the afternoon out of these
clothes on sheets sprinkled with rosewater in a sun-filled room
overlooking the ocean.
You need to be very bright to get things started with me and very
athletic to keep them going. You also need to be free two or three
times a week for many hours at a time.
If you're interested describe the best day you've ever had.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Healing myself and others.
Hosting two radio shows.
Going to lots of opera, ballet, theater and concerts.
Looking at the personal in the political.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking, writing, running groups, cooking, dancing, swimming,
reading people's emotions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The novels of T.C. Boyle, Monster's Ball, Mozart, macrobiotic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Perception, action, comprehension, connection, music and nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The roots of violence and how to heal it.
How all power relationships including those of politics and
economics scale up from the family.
How our country is being run by angry babies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the theater or a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a brother who is a convicted felon.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are comfortable inventing your life as you go along - getting
up and going to bed as the spirit moves you, working only at things
you find intensely interesting, trusting that whatever feels good
If your parents loved you enough for you to realize that you are
not here to serve or to learn a lesson - although these might
happen along the way - but to enjoy yourself.
If you have the freedom to choose excitement over security.
You're a great vegan chef.
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