Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's easy when we fall in love to toss aside our defenses and rush
into each other's arms. The challenge is to stay undefended and
vulnerable when the old fears come calling. For this I need to be
with a very special man - someone strong and protective, kind and
emotionally generous, sexy and sexual.
I'm an ex-New Yorker with a quick wit and a lot of edge - qualities
I don't seek in a partner. Professionally I'm in internationally
known healer, author and radio host - curious and creative.
In the daytime I'm often out hiking and foraging. At night I'm
usually at some cultural even but I would just as soon stay home in
the right company. My great expertise is in the physiology of
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Healing myself and others.
Hosting two radio shows.
Going to lots of opera, ballet, theater and concerts.
Looking at the personal in the political.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking, writing, running groups, cooking, dancing, swimming,
reading people's emotions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The novels of T.C. Boyle, Monster's Ball, Mozart, macrobiotic.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Perception, action, comprehension, connection, music and nature.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The roots of violence and how to heal it.
How all power relationships including those of politics and
economics scale up from the family.
How our country is being run by angry babies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the theater or a concert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a brother who is a convicted felon.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are comfortable inventing your life as you go along - getting
up and going to bed as the spirit moves you, working only at things
you find intensely interesting, trusting that whatever feels good
If your parents loved you enough for you to realize that you are
not here to serve or to learn a lesson - although these might
happen along the way - but to enjoy yourself.
If you have the freedom to choose excitement over security.
Who are you looking for?
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