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26 Urbana, IL Man


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  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 8:15pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
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Doesn’t have kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a 26 year old Librarian just trying to get through life the only way I know how.

I don't really know how to summarize myself, I can tell you that I am a driven person, who doesn't let anyone or anything stand in his way when I have my mind set on a goal. I've been told that I have an iron constitution, that what I value in life cannot be compromised, that I stick to my guns no matter what the situation is.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working full time and trying to meet new people since I'm not from around here, I'm originally from western NY. I have a very unusual job, I'm the Librarian for a medium security prison, my working day consists of a lot of crazy events that not many people get to see in the outside world. In a sense, trouble is my business.
Other than that I read a lot.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving a well placed witticism at appropriate times.

Being able to recommend books according to peoples tastes.

Board games, specifically trivia oriented games. I retain a lot of random facts.

conducting research for people, I always get asked by my friends if I can help them in their academic pursuits.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am a Hominid. Or that I have really broad shoulders.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Too many books to list. Right now I'm enjoying Steven Erikson's Malazan book of the fallen series. I also enjoy Jim Butcher, Robin Hobb, Peter F. Hamilton, Tad Williams, Stephen R. Donaldson, and David Gemmell.
I read A LOT. Most of what I read falls into the sci fi/fantasy genre.

I also love old crime novels especially those written by Dashiell Hammett and Raymond Chandler.

Movies: Seven Samurai. Taken. Blade Runner. Star Wars.

Music: Counting Crows. Barenaked Ladies. The Steve Miller Band. The Beastie Boys

Don't watch much TV nowadays.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Awesome author quoting, Raymond Chandler is my go to for that
2. My books. I have a collection of around 500 at the moment and it is growing rapidly.
3. My family and friends. For obvious reasons.
4. My stubbornness (trust me it comes in handy)
5. Weekends.
6. Local Cafes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How many roads must a man walk down?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a cafe, reading a book, doing something that reaffirms my status as a gigantic nerd.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't drink alcohol. Never have, never will. I don't mind if others drink though, just never been my thing .

I don't know why, but some people I've run into on this site have had problems with that fact.

Also, an inmate at work once told me I'm "Like ol' Dirty Bastard mixed with a cardigan sweater" I don't know if that's a good or a bad thing....
You should message me if
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For any reason. Unless you want to sell me girl scout cookies, I hate girl scout cookies.

If you like witty banter
You like talking about books
You want to challenge me to a trivia battle

If you think there is more to life than climbing the corporate ladder.

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