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pr_drumr

41 / M / Gay / Single

Brooklyn, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:52pm
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm an easy-going, responsible and practical guy who likes to talk about everything. Still relatively new to the city, and thus am looking to meet people, make friends and see what happens. Communication is a key element for me.

Life is to be enjoyed and too short to be taken too seriously. I like to let people be themselves, I don't like to control or put restrains on anybody, and expect the same in return.

I am very sensitive, affectionate and caring. I hate hypocrisy and dishonesty. I don't do a lot of sports, but am quite active and exercise regularly -trying to keep things from falling apart! I like bowling, cycling, skiing, hiking, yoga. I like traveling and the outdoors, music in general and movies, and as any other Hispanic I love to dance. Btw, for the curious mind...mostly top here.

Take care and be safe.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm happy and comfortable with the person that I am and what I have accomplished so far. I have a great family who loves me unconditionally and have been blessed with the opportunity of making true and long-lasting friendships wherever life has taken me. I love my job, but it doesn't define me by any means. Is just part of life, not it's purpose.

Thus, as I see it the best approach is to keep an open mind to what's out there rather than trying constantly to find “Mr. Right/Soulmate” everywhere. I believe that one day I'll unexpectedly meet a good, caring and easygoing guy who will in time turn out to be that “Mr. Right”.
I’m really good at
At making people laugh, being absolutely improper or irreverent (as some have classified me), and having a good time wherever I'm at and regardless of the circumstances.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, eyes and energetic personality. No time/need to be miserable in life, too short. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Most styles from jazz to dance, salsa to heavy metal. Whatever moves me.
Foods: Thai, Italian, Vietnamese, Indian, Japanese, and the list goes on... Anything chocolate, hazelnut gelato.
Books: Brida (Paulo Coehlo).
Movies: La Vita e Bella, sci-fi, anything Almodovar.
The six things I could never do without
My family, friends, chocolate, ice cream, music, being able to be myself.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nothing is worth spending too much time thinking about if there is nothing you can do about it at the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting together with some friends, going for dinner/movie/drinks, or leaving for a weekend trip!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really shy when I find someone attractive and usually don't dare approach them.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
If you want a fun person to hang out with or you're a very skilled kisser (imperative if there's some interest other than friendship as it is a major turn on). Ultimately looking for a LTR (no instant boyfriends please). Always up to meet new friends. Scruffy/hairy/stocky white guys, big plus.