Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
at this critical moment, words fail me.
good thing, there are people smarter than me, with good
"I want you to tell me about every person you’ve ever been in love
with. Tell me why you loved them, then tell me why they loved
you... See, I wanna know more than what you do for a living. I
wanna know how much of your life you spend just giving. And if you
love yourself enough to also receive sometimes."
To know me is to know the people that I love. My community, my
friends are my tether, my fencing post, my floating device, my
fucking rocket launcher.
if you are not a feminist, if you don't practice active consent,
if you are kinky, i'm interested.
i am NOT bisexual, but i AM queer. and femme, and fucking
i'm attracted to a lot of different bodies and genders. femme,
crip, butch, trans*, to name a few. more than anything your
anti-racist, anti-oppressive politic, and queer as fuck personality
is what will draw me to you.
i'm poly. i have some dates. i don't have partnership. i'm not sure
i want partnership. but i do want intimacy and care.
my life is this strange combination of really slow and quiet, on
the heels of being really loud and fast for the last few years.
sometimes the loud and fast creeps in, but mostly, i'm settling
into a new way of being in the world, which is exciting, scary, and
feels really great.
real interaction is better than this ego essay. message me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
plotting and conspiring on radical politics and organizing in
toronto on issues that include (but are not limited to) indigenous
sovereignty, migrant justice, queer rights, disability justice,
anarchy, anti-capitalist, anti-racism, sex worker advocacy,
feminism, environmental justice, and anti-poverty.
i spend a lot of time thinking about transformative justice,
community accountability, access intimacy, intersectionality,
masculine privilege and femme responsibility.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
facilitation of groups of people trying to make decisions, being a
loving aunt, friend, sister and daughter, loving unconditionally,
cooking, and making people laugh once they get to know me
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i think that's changing. i used to talk a lot. i'm quieter now. i
think now, mostly, people tend to think they already know me, when
they have never met me. oh, and in the winter, people really like
my coat. they always notice my coat.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(this will grow and evolve as i have more time)
Books: (toooo many)
everything Jeannette Winterson
blood, bones, and butter
rules for radicals
hundred years of solitude
Movies: (i keep thinking there have to be better ones than this
list i've made)
itty bitty titty committee
The Wind that Shakes the Barley
my big fat greek wedding
better than chocolate
Music:(i'm extreme, and like most things in small quantities)
-i'm a folk festival lover
-punk! not fucked up racist misogynist punk!
-i can rock out to rhianna at times, when i'm wearing
-i love danny teneglia, john digweed
-portishead is the soundtrack to my life
-i LOVE spoken word poetry - listening to it, going to it.
Food:(everyone i know, spends a LOT of time thinking, talking and
being around food. food is love)
food i like to eat is food that i'm eating with people that i
but generally, i love raw vegetables and fruit
i love whole grains
sushi makes me happy
curry warms my belly
Ethiopian makes my fingers tingle
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
i've recently been learning i can do without pretty much anything
other than food and shelter. but, that's not a first date kind of
topic. so, this is... well just a silly dating site thing
(other than love of family and friends)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
revolution, politics, how we treat each other in our communities,
communication, recipes, my garden, my to do list
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having friends over for dinner in my garden with food i've cooked
from the garden, bread i've baked that morning, and some strange
dessert i've been wanting to try to make for ages.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i have no sense of direction. it means i get lost a lot, to the
point where i'm really quite annoying. i'm also not good at reading
maps. it's a stellar combination that means i either get somewhere
really early, because i didn't get lost, or really late, because i
You should message me if
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you want to meet. i don't like okc messages, and i do like hanging
out with cool people!
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