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49 Los Angeles, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 11" (1.81m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, Chinese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I have a busy life enjoying and creating absurdity. I'm recently out of grad school and working back in the film industry, with a whole new positive perspective. Life is really good and I am happy with the constant opportunities that seem to present themselves.
What I’m doing with my life
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Planning and enjoying the process of learning. I switch between studying music, books and films. I have turned my loft mainly into a proper studio, where I have most of the things that I need to create. This is very satisfying now that there is a real order and passion; the morning sun fills my place with light and I have a coffee planning my day, that is unless I'm booked on a job:).

Ultimately, I'd like four homes around the world: Los Angeles (being my main home); New York City; London; and Shanghai. I have reasons for all of these places!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
at solving uncommon problems quickly. I'm also good at listening and responding.

In addition, I'm really good at using tools, including physical and technological/creative tools, to the point where I can figure out how most things function.

I'm also really good at literal communication and how to read figurative well. I respect all communication though not engaged by all.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is that I seem familiar. I'm not sure what this really means. Possibly that I've met a lot of people and have a hard time retaining familiarity with certain things/people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't really hold onto favorites, but for films: anything by Godard, Fellini, Fassbinder, Haneke and many other talented directors; books: books on music, semiotics, filmmaking, photography; for music: mainly listen on vinyl (Brian Eno, Charles Mingus, the Fall, Wire, Ramones, Sonic Youth, Beach Boys, New York Dolls, My Bloody Valentine, Deerhunter, Jesus and Mary Chain, and so,so much more); for food: avocados.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In addition to family, friends, health, etc.: my studio, albums, large windows, books, healthy food, dark beer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the projects that I want to complete and also to start.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to head to Cinefamily or to catch another good movie. My weekends are really the time to relax and enjoy my time, so I make an extra effort to start it right on a Friday, even if it means driving in traffic to do so.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmm, nothing comes to mind now, but I feel I can discuss anything honestly and openly.
You should message me if
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you want to:

- join me in watching much of the Criterion Collection on Hulu+;
- listen to some great vinyl records or have drinks on the rooftop overlooking downtown;
- explore Los Angeles and surrounding areas;
- have long conversations, where the questions are original and
the answers are easy.