I laugh loudly, and often. I've been called a chop-buster, but if I tease you, it's probably because I like you. At least as a friend.
I am: intense (but not scary, I don't think), interested, skeptical, sensation-seeking, a good friend and Midwestern to the core of my being.
I like: whiskey, road trips, quirky architecture, animals, horror movies, boxing, stand-up comedy, red meat, Chuck Taylors, vintage-inspired lingerie, thrift stores and good chocolate.
I'm not currently dating anyone seriously, but I'm mostly non-monogamous when I am. You should know this about me. This doesn't mean I'm a flaky human or that I'm a bad friend/lover/countryman, OK?
Dating-wise, I tend to mostly be mostly drawn to women. OKC doesn't list queer as an option, but it's how I most closely identify. (If you roll your eyes at that word, great! Let's not hang out). It doesn't mean men aren't an option for me-- it just takes someone interesting, is all.
Important: If you think that, because I happen to mention sexuality or alternative lifestyle stuff in my profile, I'll be interested in sleeping with you, no questions asked? You're an idiot. I mention those things because I'd rather not make friends who shock easily and who I don't have to hide things from. As a friend says, "I probably won't have any interest in what's in your pants. Unless there's money in there."
Caveat: I know these pictures are kind of lame. If you get in touch and we talk for awhile, I'll send you a picture with my, you know, face. I'm not ashamed of my lifestyle, but that doesn't mean I need random people stumbling upon this profile and putting two and two together.