Bi trans-guy. In an open long-term relationship. I'm mostly on here
to look at random profiles, but I'm always up for making friends
(or friends with benefits). I like reading and watching comedy and
fantasy, writing, and trying out awesome restaurants.
What I’m doing with my life
Part-time University student (English major, History minor),
looking into eventually getting a desk job in the publishing
I’m really good at
Mopping floors, according to my boss. (I'm okay at a lot of
The first things people usually notice about me
You know, I've never asked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like comedic fantasy, like Terry Pratchett (most fantasy is good, actually!), and non-fiction like 'Bittersweet: The History of Sugar'. Always happy to take suggestions as to good books (but I prefer a happy ending).
Food is a huge deal to me, and I spend stupid amounts of money eating out and trying new foods. It would be awesome to meet a like-minded person to go eat food with. Personal favourites are Indian and Thai.
Music: I like Florence and the Machine, Bastille, Queen, Ludovico Einaudi, Big Band music...
I don't watch a lot of movies/shows. If you've got a favourite film or show, and want to watch someone watching it for the first time, I'm your guy!* When I do watch stuff, it's usually fun things like Studio Ghibli movies, or documentaries about abandoned places/birds/sex robots.
*Except slasher films.
The six things I could never do without
Tea, books, money, my partner, warm sweaters and internet access.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing, sex, and food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably sitting around, to be honest. Or at work. I usually work
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Erm, that I am trans? I'm pretty candid, generally, so that's the
only thing I'm a bit sensitive about.
You should message me if
You're pretty easy-going, and share a few of my interests, or just
think we'd get along. I'd prefer it if you were between 20 and 28,
since I get along best with people my age.
SEX disclaimer: Casual sex is entirely dependent on my getting to
know you. I'm definitely interested in casual sex, but my
preference is for a friends-with-benefits arrangement, where we can
actually enjoy hanging out together as well.
Messaging disclaimer: I am very forgetful, and also sometimes
work/social obligations take me away from the internet for a while.
Please do not get offended if I don't respond to a message
immediately. I really will get to it eventually, I promise!