i'm queer (pansexual if that's yr bag) and very open-minded about my potential for attraction, a point which is unfortunately irreconcilable with okcupid's limited gender/sexual preference options.
(listing as a bi male doesn't do it justice but oh fuckin' well)
also, after many instances of this, i'm just gonna be blunt: if you're a straight, cisgender man you can stop reading now. i'm not interested.
i'm pretty introverted and ridiculously shy. make of that what you will.