if you want to hang out in person. if you're sassy. if you're
if you're queer; especially queer punx. if you're any kind of
if you're also both queer&trans* ... queer transmen and
transwomen really do it for me.
if you're a power bottom. (definitely not a requirement, but it's
something i tend to like)
if you have radical politics... but like actually radical politics
none of that neoliberal bullshit.
if you're feminist, anti-racist, anti-capitalist, and generally
anti-oppression//don't tolerate racist, misogynist, and classist
behaviors//are open to working together on being better about these
if you think we'd make rad friends.
also, in the effort of full-disclosure:
a) i'm really bad about messaging people back; plz don't take it
personally it usually is just a matter of how busy i am and how
little emotional/physical energy i have for okcupid-ing
b) i'm open to dating people of all gender
expressions/bodies/presentations, but most of my recent dating
history has been with masculine spectrum folks (of all body types)
and gender variant folks of different varieties. but there's also a
strain of fierce, sassy femme queer women (of all body types) that
i'm into. desire is confusing.