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26 Brooklyn, NY Transmasculine, Genderqueer, Non-binary

Transmasculine, Genderqueer, Non-binary

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:20pm
Queer, Homoflexible, Pansexual
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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i'm a femme-y radical, ftm genderqueer transfag. (they/them plz). i'm really hoping to make more queer, trans, and politically like-minded friends/find community here. i'm the kind of boy who'd rather meet you at a lecture than a club.

i'm queer as fuck and into the whole spectrum of gender expressions/identities/bodies.

i'm interested in seeking varied types of connection/intimacy with more than one person which is a fancy way of saying i'm non-monogamous. it is not a fancy way of saying i'm flaky or unaccountable. i'm trying to learn to cultivate more permeable bounds between my friendships and romantic relationships; we'll see how it goes.

straight cisgender dudes: feel free to click away now.

i'm pretty introverted and ridiculously shy. infj.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
grad school. studying gender&race&class, queer history, queer and feminist theory, phenomenology, affect theory, political economy, and the like.
making lattes pays the bills.
trying to do queer political work/activism type stuff wherever i can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cutting off my rattail. starting over.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
just good beer and running/working out. maybe coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
gender. feminism. (anti)racism. (anti)capitalism. sex (positivity). critical trans politics. how much i hate mainstream assimilationist gay/trans politics. the prison industrial complex/prison abolition.

lately: queer rage, the 70's and the late 80's/early 90's and radical nostalgia, desire and plasticity
You should message me if
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if you want to hang out in person. if you're sassy. if you're cute.
if you're queer; especially queer punx. if you're any kind of genderfuck.
if you're also both queer&trans/gnc (trans men, trans women, trans folx of all kinds) ... i think trans folks getting together is like one of the most beautiful things in the world and i'm super into it.
if you're a power bottom. (definitely not a requirement, but it's something i tend to like)
if you're a hard femme. hard femmes make me swoon.
if you have radical politics... but like actually radical politics none of that neoliberal bullshit.
if you're feminist, anti-racist, anti-capitalist, and generally anti-oppression (a list of these things will never be exhaustive which is frustrating in itself, but i feel compelled to explicitly mention anti-ableism, anti-fatphobia) //don't tolerate racist, (trans)misogynist, and classist behaviors//are open to working together on being better about these things
if you think we'd make rad friends.

also, in the effort of full-disclosure:
i'm really bad about messaging people back; plz don't take it personally it usually is just a matter of how busy i am and how little emotional/physical energy i have for okcupid-ing. i try to communicate meaningfully when i can.