Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you want to hang out in person. if you're sassy. if you're
if you're queer; especially queer punx. if you're any kind of
if you're also both queer&trans/gnc (trans men, trans women,
trans folx of all kinds) ... i think trans folks getting together
is like one of the most beautiful things in the world and i'm super
if you're a power bottom. (definitely not a requirement, but it's
something i tend to like)
if you're a hard femme. hard femmes make me swoon.
if you have radical politics... but like actually radical politics
none of that neoliberal bullshit.
if you're feminist, anti-racist, anti-capitalist, and generally
anti-oppression (a list of these things will never be exhaustive
which is frustrating in itself, but i feel compelled to explicitly
mention anti-ableism, anti-fatphobia) //don't tolerate racist,
(trans)misogynist, and classist behaviors//are open to working
together on being better about these things
if you think we'd make rad friends.
also, in the effort of full-disclosure:
i'm really bad about messaging people back; plz don't take it
personally it usually is just a matter of how busy i am and how
little emotional/physical energy i have for okcupid-ing. i try to
communicate meaningfully when i can.