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prettyshirts716

26 / F / Bisexual / Available

Portland, Oregon

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 11:22am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Born in the USSR, grew up in Maryland, moved to Eugene 4 years ago, and now on to Portland. I've been here for over a year now and have completely fallen in love with this city. Let's show each other around!

A glimpse into my world:

Current articles I have open to remind me to read (I always have far too many tabs):
--Elizabeth Warren Continues To Be The Senator We All Hoped She Would Be
--Turmeric Extract Puts Drugs For Knee Osteoarthritis To Shame
--“Paleofantasy”: Stone Age delusions
--5 Aromatherapy Oils Everyone Should Have at Home
--5 Ways Yoga Will Improve Your Running
--Undressing Sex: Re-Imagining The Art of Female Eroticism
--The Science of Sleeplessness
--Ms. Opinionated: Should I Come Out As Poly?
--3 Attachments That Are Dragging You Down
--This Woman's Beef With Prettiness Will Leave You Speechless
--What A Subway Ride Taught Me About Mindfulness
--So You’re Tired of Hearing About “Rape Culture”?
--The Zany, the Cute, and the Interesting: On Ngai's "Our Aesthetic Categories"

Currently reading:
--"The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching" by Thich Nhat Hanh
--"Nonviolence Communication" by Marshall Rosenberg
--"Earthclan" by David Brin
--"The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
--"Stumbling on Happiness" by Daniel Gilbert

Favorite quotes that sum me up rather nicely:

"If we listened to our intellect, we'd never have a love affair. We'd never have a friendship. We'd never go into business, because we'd be too cynical. Well, that's nonsense. You've got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on the way down." --Annie Dillard

"What I want in my life is compassion, a flow between myself and others based on a mutual giving from the heart." --Marshall B. Rosenberg, Ph.D.

“Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs are people who have come alive.” --Howard Thurman

"When health is absent, wisdom cannot reveal itself, art cannot manifest, strength cannot fight, wealth becomes useless, and intelligence cannot be applied." --Herophilus

"The doctor of the future will give no medicine, but will interest his patients in the care of the human frame, in diet, and in the cause and prevention of disease." ~Thomas Edison

"When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down "happy". They told me I didn’t understand the assignment. I told them they didn’t understand life." — John Lennon <3

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world." --Mahatma Gandhi

The Dalai Lama, when asked what surprised him most about humanity, answered, "Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, & then dies having never really lived."

"Never let anyone come to you without coming away better and happier." --Mother Teresa

"Here we are, arguably the most intellectual, clever species ever to have lived--so how is it that we can destroy the only planet we have?" --Jane Goodall

'The beef industry has contributed to more American deaths than all the wars of this century, all natural disasters, and all automobile accidents combined. If beef is your idea of “real food for real people,” you’d better live real close to a real good hospital.' —Neal D. Barnard, MD

"If all the money that is being spent on finding ways to kill people was used instead to feed them and house them, clothe them and educate them -- how beautiful that would be. We are too often afraid of the sacrifices we might have to make. But where there is true love, there is joy and peace." --Mother Teresa

"If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves." --Thomas Edison

"We're all going to die, all of us, what a circus! That alone should make us love each other but it doesn't. We are terrorized and flattened by trivialities, we are eaten up by nothing." --Charles Bukowski

‘It’s very dear to me, the issue of gay marriage. Or as I like to call it: “Marriage.” You know, because I had lunch this afternoon, not gay lunch. I parked my car; I didn’t gay park it.' --Liz Feldman

"At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us." --Albert Schweitzer

For each new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, for love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought." --Buddha

"Until he extends the circle of his compassion to all living things, man will not himself find peace." —Albert Schweitzer

"The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow Roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars, and in the middle, you see the blue center-light pop, and everybody goes ahh..." --Jack Kerouac

"The Republican National Committee announced today that the Republican Party is changing its emblem from an elephant to a condom. Governor Marc Racicot, RNC chairman, explained that the condom more clearly reflects the party's stance today, because a condom accepts inflation, halts production, destroys the next generation, protects a bunch of pricks, and gives you a false sense of security while you're actually getting screwed."
What I’m doing with my life
I do many things and am constantly busy, but I like it this way.

I'm in college full-time, for a long time. I'm pre-med, and a Health Sciences major. I'm soon going to be applying for my CCN license (Clinically Certified Nutritionist). After that I plan to go to Israel for a Masa program and/or on a working visa for a bit. When I get back, the goal is to continue on to medical school to become a Naturopathic Doctor.

I'm very passionate about holistic health and nutrition. I've been (mostly) raw vegan for about 2 years now and am always continuing to explore diet and health. I would love to meet other people on this journey!
I’m really good at
Mrs. Pacman.

Being random.

Procrastinating.

Being affectionate/cuddling.

Making huge, amazing salads.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm short, I have really curly hair and I smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Brave New World, 1984, Walden 2, Ecotopia, More Than Human, Angels and Demons, A Prayer for Owen Meany, The World According to Garp, anything by Orson Scott Card, LOTR, Harry Potter, The Foundation Novels, Maus, Tuesdays with Morrie, Fahrenheit 451, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Opening Up, The Ethical Slut, Nonviolent Communication...the list is long and I'm always looking for the next good book. I will love you if you introduce me to some!

Movies: ah so many...Across the Universe, Up, Coraline, Finding Nemo, Inception, Adaptation, Se7en, Pulp Fiction, Closer, Boondock Saints, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Sweeney Todd, Chicago, A Beautiful Mind, Memento, Sin City, High Fidelity, Donnie Darko, Silence of the Lambs, Garden State, Good Will Hunting, The Graduate, Rounders, Million Dollar Baby, Office Space, Chaos Theory, Zoolander, The Jerk, Wedding Crashers, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Stewie Griffin: The Untold Story, Sixth Sense, I Heart Huckabees, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Best of Will Ferrell, the Oceans series, V for Vendetta, and a thousand more that you can ask me about. I haven't seen many classics so that's next on the list.

TV: The Big Bang Theory, Girls, Modern Family, How I Met Your Mother, The New Normal, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, New Girl, Farscape, Firefly, Battlestar, Arrested Development, The X-Files, Community, Californication, Flight of the Concords, 30 Rock, Parks and Recreation, The Office, Weeds, House, The L-Word, Scrubs, That 70's Show, Family Guy, Futurama, Invader Zim. I actually don't own a TV--who needs one when you have the internets?

Music: There's definitely a wide variety. I listen to pretty much everything except death metal. I'm particularly in love with classic rock. Beatles, AC/DC, Pink Floyd, U2, Atmosphere, Radiohead, Depeche Mode, Camera Obscura and NIN just to name a few. Gaga is my (not so) guilty pleasure.

Food: I'm vegan and eat as much raw as possible, especially during the summer. Having said that, I still get really excited about all types of (vegan) food. I love to play in the kitchen and have tons of recipe books that I work with. I love feeding people in general, and if you come over, you will be offered everything I currently have in my fridge and pantry - you have been warned. Also, fresh juice!
The six things I could never do without
- Watermelon, and pretty much every other fruit, but watermelon is the best.

- Friends/family.

- Animal love: my kitties are the best cuddlers!

- The sense of touch.

- Books/internet - just knowledge in general.

- Passion.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How McDonald's and Walmart are the fall of mankind. When we're going to officially find aliens and become friends with them. When we're going to move to outer space. Reality. Alternate Universes. Where to travel to next. Where I want to live in a few years. How I can travel around the world and get paid for it. My grandfather and how amazing he was. How I need to invent a pair of hands that feel exactly like human hands and give incredible massages...I would make millions. TED talks. Sexuality. Poly/Open relationships. Why we have to sleep so much in order to function. Human interactions. Holistic medicine and everything related to it. The optimal foods for humans. That I get way too excited at farmer's markets/health food stores. How to live to 120 disease-free. How I'm going to start and plan my garden. Judaism. Religion/heritage/culture. Utopian/distopian/post-apocalyptic societies. Intentional communities. Nonviolent communication. Radical honesty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really want dreads.

I'm probably practicing hand stands at 1 AM.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to make me juice (or take me to a juice bar, that's acceptable too). You want to help me move at the end of June. You want to go to you-pick farms with me. You want to teach and help me plant a garden. You can hold an intelligent conversation. You can communicate effectively. U dOn tYpE lyk diS lol! You're entertaining. You love to travel. You don't smoke cigarettes. You care about your health and future. You are driven and passionate. You're interested in holistic health and/or nutrition. You want to teach me poi/fire dancing/pole dancing. You want to practice handstands and do acro-yoga. You want to go climbing at the Portland Rock Gym or PSU. You can appreciate this. You're raw/vegan/vegetarian/want to get there. You're open to poly/non-monogamy. You want to make The Lemon Law a thing. You like to cuddle. Affection is something that's very big in my life, so if you aren't affectionate we probably won't mesh.

You don't mind that I'm busy and might not get back to you right away. Or that we might not actually get a chance to get together for a while.

I'm currently not drinking. Right now it's for a cleanse, but I would like to continue indefinitely. This means I'm not really interested in meeting at a bar. Let's have adventures together instead!