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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 22
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I’m a Bay Area native. I love San Francisco because there’s so much to do and always something new to try. I like variety in all things in life: cuisine, movies, music, art, sex, etc… Sometimes I wax philosophic, and sometimes superficially observe. My goal is to always live in the moment like a Zen master, think I‘m getting a little closer. I’m not big on daily routines. I just try to maximize my time and balance work and play. Although I wouldn't consider myself an extrovert, I'm both fascinated and entertained by a wide range of personality types.

People sometimes misinterpret my stubbornness as close-mindedness. I have strong opinions, but I keep my mind open and I always try to see things from other points of view, try to never miss an opportunity for gaining new perspective. I am drawn towards people with strong conviction. At the same time, ya gotta be pretty open minded to hang with me. I'm somewhat reserved until I figure out we click and then I'm an open book.

If you take life too seriously you’ll miss the whole point. But I believe in having ambition and challenging oneself. I consider myself to be a skeptical optimist and maintain a positive attitude about things. But a little negativity in moderation is refreshing sometimes too. All about maintaining balance ya know. The world is so f’d up but so damn funny. I occasionally get frustrated with stupid people, but then I remember they’re just here to make me laugh.

I've found it to be surprising, discovering whom I'm compatible with. I don't have a lot of specific requirements for a potential partner, I'm just looking for someone to connect with on a broad spectrum. Family is important to me and I feel pretty lucky to have an awesome family that I like spending time with even though I'm sort of the outlier. I appreciate unconventionality, warped sense's of humor, challenges, and adventurousness. Smart girls turn me on. If you’re curious, sensual, love to try new things, and have a good sense of humor then we’d probably get along.

Here’s a short list of things I am not looking for:
1) a born-again Christian (or born-again anything)
2) overly materialistic or conformist
3) someone who when you go out to dinner, she picks at her food rather than enjoys it
4) high strung or severely bi-polar
5) a flake
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Yelling "Abortions Rule!!!" at a mob of Pro-lifers.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My huge muscles
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Everything that's good, I like. And some bad things as well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
the ocean
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the singularity
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show, bar, party, dinner, painting, getting in & out of trouble, inventing rad drinks
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I listen to chick music.
You should message me if
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you're cool, fun, kinky, deviant