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27 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 20–100
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:08am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of high school
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm part queer southerner, part depraved teenage boy and part professional transsexual.
I enjoy babes and carousels and beaches and woods and playing dress up and making out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
pursuing my dreams. taking dirty pictures. going for long walks in the woods. running an adult website.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
kissing, cuddling, dressing up, birthdays, not taking myself too seriously.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my dapper style & charm, how quiet/socially awkward I am, the little pieces of glitter perpetually stuck to my body, my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Little Prince, City of Night, Whipping Girl, Bastard Out of Carolina, Times Square Red Times Square Blue, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Oryx and Crake.

Romeo + Juliet, Otto, The Last Unicorn, Let the Right One In, Otto, The 5th Element, Eraserhead, Cruel Intentions, Female Trouble, Wild Tigers I Have Known.

Kate Bush, Hole, Purity Ring, Tori Amos, Mariah Carey, Wanda Jackson, Serge Gainsbourg, Gang of Four, Lil Kim, TLC, Big Freedia, Patti Smith, Jennifer Lopez, Robyn, Fleetwood Mac, Limp Wrist, Dolly Parton

I don't watch much TV but I like Rupaul's Drag Race, Golden Girls, Designing Women and Ugly Americans.

Vietnamese sandwiches, ice cream, sushi, kale, tacos, fried things, sugar
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my hands, computers, queers, glitter, porn, a diverse underwear collection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sex, computers, porn, capitalism, nature, life post apocalypse, what might have happened if I did this thing instead of that thing, how to be a more accountable person, how to live a more free and magical life, how cute that person on that bike is, etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably reading a book at a sex club, but other nights you might find me at a dance party or delivering pizzas or cooking dinner at home or editing porn
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like being the big spoon
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want an adventure. You like to do stuff and make things. You want to collaborate on a project. You want to get naked, try on each others clothes, tell me all your fucked up fantasies and have picnics in the woods, that sort of thing.

I'm mostly looking for casual dates & sexy times. My sexual taste varies a lot depending on chemistry, generally more interested in guys these days but who knows. I'm also a total ducker for home cooked meals.
I have a soft spot for extroverts, femmes, hustlers, honesty, good/trashy fashion, big hearts, brilliant filthy minds.

If you think I'm cute or think we'd get along, you should go ahead and send me a message.