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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 13
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you ask me to dinner, I'll say yes.

There's nothing average about me.

A little crazy, a lot normal, always seeking adventure. I'm an actor by education (Bachelor degree and Masters degree in acting from St. John's University and Purdue University), a teacher through experience (university professor, pre-school, elementary, high school), a former corporate 9 to 5-er (executive assistant to VIP's at Disney and), and a renaissance kind of good guy. Currently working as the head of operations for a great non-profit here in Charlotte. I worked in China for two years teaching English and managing an English school. My gypsy existence means I sometimes have a car, sometimes not. Sometimes have furniture, sometimes not. If material things are important to you, I'm probably not a good match. Don't get me wrong, I have a good TV and I'm a gaymer, and I have a great bed ... I just don't thrive on 'things'.

I've gone to Burning Man twice and will go again shortly. There's nothing like being Home.

I have a definite edge. I don't like blatant stupidity or flagrant unkindness. I will say the truth whether it's uncomfortable or not. I'm considerate, insightful, loyal, funny as hell, always looking for adventure, and always looking for someone to join me on said adventures.

My heart is good. My soul is true. I thrive in nature and at the same time can wear a tux like a pro and join the best crowds in exquisite dinner conversation on a bevy of topics. I have a high appeciation for the arts and can debate you like a champ on politics.

I'm imperfect, highly imperfect. I'm always striving to make myself a better person. I love my independence but want that one person who I can count on. I will take care of you, you will take care of me. I will tell you and encourage you to take a vacation with your friends without me joining you. You will do the same. I laugh hard, play hard, fight hard, and live hard.

I am sexy and fun and deliberate and intent and .... just looking for someone with whom I can cuddle on the couch.

I have a good life. It would be better with someone.

I am honest (to a fault), generous, and loyal.

Ask me out on a date, and I will say yes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living, improving, loving, fighting, making money, spending money, laughing, and searching.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a pretty damned good actor.

I'm a great teacher.

You will never have a better friend.

I can sing a great tune.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My honesty.

My ability and willingness to help.

My height.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Illusions by Richard Bach.

Movies: Sophie's Choice, What Dreams May Come, Best in Show, Waitin for Guffman, Postcards from the Edge.

Music: mostly folk ... David Wilcox, Richard Shindell, Cheryl Wheeler, Eddie from Ohio.

Food: I'll try anything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People who know me
Fresh air
A goal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Surrounded by friends, good food, and great, thoughtful conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Let's have a great, deep conversation about this at some point.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're looking for a relationship, some dating, some fun, adventure, know who you are, love complexity, are younger than me and think you can handle me, are older than me and can teach me a thing or two, are on the same basic journey as me.