proactiv44
58 / m / straight / seeing someone
Portland, Oregon, United States
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eclectic, active, adventuresome, and falling for someone
My self-summary Propose an edit
I'm active and fit.
Based on appearance, demeanor and attitude most people guess my age
at 44ish and www.realage.com agrees, but my evil drivers license
claims I'm 58. I sure don't look, feel or act it and when I'm
biking, hiking or snowshoeing with a group, I'm usually out ahead
of the 30-somethings.
With dark brown shortish hair and bright blue eyes, I'm 5'11" and
164 lbs. I prefer active outdoor recreation over going the gym
for exercise. I enjoy traveling, hiking, backpacking, biking, kayaking, rafting, skiing, snorkeling (want to learn scuba, snowshoeing, reading, movies, dancing (need more lessons), occasional
golf, live music, and viewing performing arts and
visual arts.
Wish I had time to do it all.
I'm eclectically mostly liberal, religiously indeterminate, and
have widely varying adventuresome tastes. I love life,
rain and snow, clouds, storms and wind, trees and rivers, driving
and traveling, microbrews, and most music. Places I
most want to go are many, including Peru, New Zealand, Greece, and
Belize (again).
Some more adjectives: imaginative, inventive, logical, emotional,
empathetic,
dependable, competent, ethical, honest, and sensual and love to please (OK, so the
last was a phrase, I should find an adjective for it).
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
Always trying to leave things better than I find them. Enjoying
living in downtown Portland after 20+ years beyond the suburbs. I'm
enjoying the great outdoors when I can, which is pretty
often. I just rejoined the volunteer Mount Hood Ski Patrol, which I
did for 14 years in the past. Enjoying time with my 20-something
children, just slightly envious their brains and zest.
I have 6 years of college and am a licensed architect who has migrated into IT. My
staff and coworkers say I'm smart, funny, and the best boss ever. I
just try to live up to their expectations. I love my job and we
have fun at work.
I'm really good at Propose an edit
Analyzing and solving problems and improving things. I can figure
out how to do, build, or fix most things.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
I don't know, I should ask people, but I've been told I have a low
sexy voice, nice blue eyes, and a calm confident demeanor, and that
most find me attractive or handsome.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
Books - Types: Hard SciFi, Historical Fiction, Suspense, etc
Authors: Creighton, McCarthy, John Sanford, Reichs, Elmore Loenard,
Twain, Steinbeck, or anyone who does their research and offers
depth in their drama. I also enjoy lighter fiction including Janet
Evanovich.
Movies: Almost anything GOOD. Stephen King is NEVER good.
Creighton's books are great, but his movies usually aren't. I like
everything from off-the-wall, witty, dark humor, to action, to
drama, to romantic comedy.
Music: love Jazz,
Blues, classic rock,
classical, actually most everything (except sleepy opera, annoying
rap & disco, or sappy country – but I do enjoy rockabilly and
Willie)
Food: Anything with FLAVOR, tend towards ethnic foods and eclectic menus.
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
Being active: biking, hiking, skiing, etc...
Sitting back enjoying the outdoors and nature,
Enjoying all the interesting and educational events Portland has to
offer,
Hanging out and chatting with friends and my kids,
Being productive and feeling I am contributing and am appreciated
for what I do,
The partner I've found, with whom I hope to forever enjoy life,
love, wonderful sex, and all of this.
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
Life, the world, work, how it all fits, and is 42 really the answer
to life, the universe and everything?
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
What's typical? With friends, on a date, or doing virtually
anything else, you never know...
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
I'm sometimes a bit introverted, but have been doing pretty well at
changing that. Well, that's not very private.
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Questions He Cares About View all
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- Is it ever okay to hit your child so hard it bruises or leaves a red mark for several hours?
- · Yes
- · Yes - on the butt or other harmless area
- · No
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- Do you believe a couple should live together before considering marriage?
- · Yes
- · No
- · I'm Not Sure
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- You're in a romantic relationship with someone you really like. As far as you're concerned, how long will it take before you'll have sex?
- · 1-2 dates
- · 3-5 dates
- · 6 or more dates
- · Only after the wedding







