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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:22am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), German (Okay), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It is always hard to summarize oneself in a few sentences, but here are a handful written in a futile attempt to do so:

* I am a geek. Ask me about star trek, games or - my favourite pastime, roleplaying games, and you won't get me to shut up.

* I'm a snob. I like good wine, I'm picky about my whisky and I dress in a suit even while home alone.

* I'm a perv. Or at least sound like one. I have an extreme fascination for extreme kinks and know about most weird ideas and try to understand even the most deviant practices.

* I question. Nothing should be taken for granted.

* I talk too much. Ask me about my favourite colour and you will probably get an introduction to colour theory. If you send me a message you'll most likely get one back that is twice as long.

* I'm poly. Since this is a dating site it might be worth mentioning. This means two things: I can and do fall in love with more that one person, and I want sexual relationships with more than one person. The two may or may not overlap.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.

Studying, playing RPGs (the pen-and-paper version - not computer games), trying to figure out the meaning of life and working on my millions of projects...

Also, I am just starting up as a graphic designer.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Seeming better at something than I really am.

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!

I'm a relaxed, very calm and down-to-earth kind of guy. That's not true at all but such are first impressions.

Also, a guy with long hair stands out in most mainstream places. But often wearing a suit make me seem odd among "alternative" people...

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Zen and the art of maintaining a motorcycle, The Process, Divina Comedia, Mort.

Movies: The Wall, Äppelkriget, Nightmare before Christmas, Eyes Wide Shut, Monty Python's Quest for the Holy Grail.

TV Shows: Doctor Who, Jeeves and Wooster, The Colbert Report, The Daily Show, Family Guy, CSI: Crime Scene Investigation, Firefly.

Music: Chopin, Bo Kaspers Orkester, Sting, Duke Ellington, Andrew Lloyd Webber, musicals, Pink Floyd, Simon and Garfunkel.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Everything. I tend to not be able to stop thinking about stuff. If you want someone who seriously question every little detail of existence, I'm the guy to talk to.

Oh, and yes, as this is almost mandatory: I do spend a lot of time thinking about sex. Satisfied?

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing games, roleplaying or otherwise, hanging out with friends...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm actually hoping someone will message me and ask about a lot of sex-stuff so I can get a chance to tell people just how perverted I am or have them tell me about their perversions. Sadly, no one seem to be interested...
You should message me if
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You want to know more about me, would like to tell me about yourself or just feel a strong urge to send anyone a message.

And I'd love some feedback on comments I've made to Improve Matches questions.

However, if you don't want to talk to me unless I'm a potential match and/or sex partner - please note that I'm very much involved in the BDSM/fetish subculture and unless you at least want to explore something like that - it probably will not work out.