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34 • F • Los Angeles, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like girls
- Ages 25–41
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Sep 15
- 5′ 4″ (1.63m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Likes cats
- English, Yiddish (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)
I have been living in an intentional community and experiencing all of the joy, conflict, support and challenge that entails. I went car-free a year ago and get around by bike and metro; I have found that it has helped me to slow down. I have taught music to young children for the past decade and am taking a sabbatical to complete an oral history project I have been working on very slowly for nearly as long. I have played violin and bandleader in a folk band for the past 5 years and recently stepped down from that, as well.
After my sabbatical year, I am not certain what will come next; I imagine it might involve community, listening to peoples' stories, children, art and writing, in one form or another.
Sacred Pleasure: Sex, Myth and the Politics of the Body (Riane Eisler)
True Love: A Practice for Awakening the Heart (Thich Nhat Hanh)
How to Talk so Kids will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk (Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish)
Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can't Stop Talking (Susan Cain)
No More Throw-Away People: The Co-Production Imperative (Edgar Cahn)
Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire (Lisa Diamond)
and off-and-on I've been working on Sacred Economics by Charles Eisenstein.
and I love children's books.
I don't really watch movies. I like going to Outfest and other independent film festivals sometimes.
Music: I play klezmer music so there is a special place in my heart for anything Balkan/Eastern European/"gypsy"/Roma etc. Anything with live string musicians. James Taylor and Joni Mitchell are my comfort food. I secretly love Christian bluegrass/country music.
Food: almost anything, especially if it is fresh and you cook it for me. :)
catching up with a friend over tea
home doing some good self-care (home-cooked dinner, bubble bath, early to bed)
at a meet-up event
meeting my sister for dinner
(I can actually be convinced to go out for a drink or dancing... by the right person on the right day)
you're relatively self-aware and have a fairly good idea of what you want in life. I'm pretty sure we're all works-in-progress, and, corny as it may sound, it's all about the journey, not the destination: I'm looking for fellow travelers.
you wouldn't mind helping to keep me from bumping into things (I'm getting better but I could still use some help)
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