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42 M Northfield, MN

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update 11/17/2013: Please I am not into "open relationships", swinging, or any other variation of "poly-amorous" relationships. I tried to be open about dating "bi-women" but found it doesn't work b/c of my "one sausage rule" so lets save each other some time and not try to change each others views. That said...

I’m a single dad of three beautiful children that are my world; though I don’t get to see as much of them as I’d like. Unfortunately I didn’t get the “parent access schedule” I was hoping. I was not as blessed as some of the people in my life that got a fair and cooperative ex. If you’re looking to have more children I’m sorry but the “magazines have been disconnected from the gun”. I have no intention of reliving that nightmare again for a reversal. I have been told I’m a great guy and that I’m really just a big teddy bear. I’m honest, respectful, and loyal. I’m fully domesticated and house broken; I like to cook for my significant and vice versa once in a while. All my pictures are from within the last year and a half so they are accurate.

I like to ride bike and often will ride anywhere from 5 – 15 miles per depending on weather and schedule (if I make a wrong turn it’s usually a guaranteed 15 miles) but will admit I didn't get out as much as I would have liked to this season. We do a lot of volunteer work with Cub Scouts. I have 2 daughters and I like doing their hair and painting their nails… I have found that it’s a lot like painting model cars; they just wiggle and giggle more. I have been the “Pretty Pretty Princess” when playing with my daughters and there is photo you might enjoy. As I have been blessed with 2 daughters I treat women the way I would want someone to treat them.

I'm firm believer in the quote "when life pushes you down just get back up, dust yourself off, and tell it that it hits like a b****". So far I think I'm doing a pretty good job of getting back up and dusting myself off. I’m a very passionate person but I can be a little cautious at first. I have been hurt a few times now and I’m developing a slightly thicker shell. Please don’t let that dissuade you from contacting me though b/c I guarantee once you get past that shell there is a “soft gooey center” I know you will like.

My family and friends are very important to me and I can be very protective. For instance my kids don’t know and will not know “daddy is dating”. After the last relationship I learned to keep my parenting duties and dating life separate (at least in the beginning). My kids will come first but I will also make any relationship with you a priority as well. I just want to take things slow, very casual, and see how they play out. I’m an open book if you ask a question… any question… I’ll get you an answer. I love trying new things.

I’m looking for a kind, loving, HONEST, non-judgmental woman for friendship and more. If you’re looking for a sugar daddy… keep moving I already have 3 children of my own to take of I won’t add you to the list. I’m looking for someone to be my friend as well as my lover. I want someone who can communicate and not clam up if there’s a disagreement. I have a few extra pounds that I’m trying to lose and if you won’t give me a look with a few extra pounds then you won’t deserve me when I’m “slender and toned”. I don’t want or need to be THE top priority in your life. What I will ask though is that any relationship we do have be somewhere above “yard work” or “washing your hair”. If I sound like someone you’d want to meet send me a message… I don’t bite…hard…um unless you ask. ;) If you contact me I will certainly be courteous enough to reply.

If you made it all the way through thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to be the best dad I can and provide for them and live happily.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a Dad. Crossstitch, working on cars, cooking, nail art (well getting better anyway).
The first things people usually notice about me
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My goatee. (when it's grown out).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Life (Eddie Murphy & Martin Lawrence), Sci-Fi, Comedy, Action-adventure.
Music: Everything except MJ and "Gansta Rap". I like everything from 60's-70's AM Gold, Seether, Five Finger Death Punch, Metallica, 80's, Katy Perry, even "All the Best From the Pipes of Scotland". lol
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm either with my kids (every other)
Or doing "something" to occupy myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I "well up" a bit during the National Anthem.
You should message me if
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You want a sweet guy.
You are not interested in Botox or other "procedures".
You are not looking for a guy to help you model your life after "The Real Housewives of ________."
If a "meet and greet" during happy hour at Applebees is not "beneath you".
You don't mind if I go to church no matter what your beliefs/non-beliefs are.