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42 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 13
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Dutch (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Sanskrit (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am enjoying life, feel fortunate and grateful. Into yoga (practice and teach), music (occasional dj), tea, community building and traveling. I read quite a bit. I enjoy watching a good movie, but generally don't watch much tv. I am blessed with a good career, the means to enjoy life and travel, a loving and supportive family, and some very meaningful friendships.

I've added an album of "some photos i've taken" to give a random sample of places I've been, my sense of aesthetic, things I like and appreciate.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm enjoying friends, music, nature, and even my work.
I’m really good at
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communicating and writing, gardening, cooking, tennis, driving, listening, spreadsheet modeling, photography, analysis, snowboarding, arm balancing and inversions, being an uncle, sleeping, deduction, lawn bowling, telling the truth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am thin. In body type (my details) I say that I'm 'athletic'. This is true. I'm athletic and thin, and 'fit' for that matter. I honestly don't know what all those body types actually mean.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lots of favorites (so to name a few)...

Music :: Iron & Wine, She Wants Revenge, Goldfrapp, Bach, Damien Rice, Portishead, Underworld, Missy Elliott, Mobb Deep, Max Richter, Fleetwood Mac, Black Sabbath, Trespassers William, Interpol, Daughter, Nils Frahm, very selectively chosen house, tech house and techno

Movies :: Shawshank Redemption, The Believer, The Pillowbook, Fight Club, Pulp Fiction, Baraka, Chasing Ice

Books (and authors) :: Shantaram, Dune (Frank Herbert series), I Am Ozzy, Bhagavad Gita, The Essential Rumi, Cutting for Stone, Open (Andre Aggasi), Pathways to Bliss, Essential Ken Wilber, Self-Reliance, Vonnegut, Philip K. Dick
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good people (friends, family, community)
music ("without music life would be a mistake")
deep sound sleep
a good sense of humor (my own and people around me)
a car (for the freedom and independence it facilitates)
You should message me if
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you are interested and so inclined.