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31 Pittsburgh, PA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–27
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:20pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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After I'm comfortable singing around you, I will sing constantly.

I like to chop wood.

My parents have always been staunch feminists. My dad owns a copy of Woman Hating, and my mother didn't shave her legs or armpits while I was growing up. I was also home-schooled by them. So, I think certain attitudes towards women are just a natural part of my character. I've always felt like I could relate to women as much, if not more, than men. I'm obviously just using this to make myself more appealing, which I'm not really into. I don't like selling myself. It seems disingenuous. But, that's the whole point of this, I guess. And, those things are true.

I have a degree in philosophy and all that stuff.

I like the way the light of the summer evening saturates the air.

I value the the meaning of feelings, not just their presence.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm searching for the sacred grove.

I sell perfume and vintage perfume bottles.

I plan on WWOOFing at some point, and if I settle down somewhere, I'd like to be a Big Brother. I think might move to Europe for a while in order to hunt down valuable perfume bottles that were stolen by the Nazis during WWII.
I’m really good at
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cutting my own hair

telling if fruit is ripe

eating lemons
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like any music with a good atmosphere or that is able to capture a different time, place, world, or story than my own.

The Silence of the Lambs, The Princess Bride, Dead Man, American Psycho, 12 Monkeys, Terminators 1&2, The Neverending Story, Documentaries

Catch-22, Grendel, Cat's Cradle, The Sirens of Titan, Pale Fire, Lolita, Solaris

Deadwood, The Wire, Planet Earth, Rome, True Detective, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Freaks and Geeks, The Simpsons 1-8

“The world of dew
is the world of dew.
And yet, and yet--”
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
new perspectives, some skill to learn, nature, the sound of stringed instruments, dog, other people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How if you slow down bird songs, it sounds like actual music, and how the birds are hearing it this way because their experience is slowed down due to the faster processing of their brains. The world is really filled with this music. It's been filled with music before man. WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

Slow Bird Song

That's supposed to start at 2:41.

How naming things affects and limits our experience of those things. It changes what they are. Our pets become characters. The experience of who they really are is stifled. Some day I'm going to get a pet and not give it a name, just let it show its true self without shackling it with a name. Some Indian tribes believed it was a sacrilege to name certain animals. They didn't have a name for the wolf. What would it be like to experience the nameless universe, I wonder?

I think that the idea that physical objects are the only things that are "real" or "out there" and that feelings are simply in our heads is a bad way of understanding reality, being, and experience.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
got an 8:30 res at Dorsia - grrreat sea urchin ceviche!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have exploding head syndrome.
You should message me if
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the night sky beckons you to adventure.

you want to get out and enjoy the spring.