39 Asheville, NC
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My self-summary
Seeking emotionally available, enlightened women of substance.

Unconventional. Sapiosexual. Polyhistor.

Interested in sincerity, absurdity, vulnerability, individuality, curiosity, intimacy, innovation, discovery, irreverence, critical thinking, imagination, insight, inspiration & dancing.

Nicknames include: Kermit, Jitty, Jittness, Jitterbug, Carlos, Buford, Beeker, Masonic, Sergio, Mos Jef, el jefe, Sparklebear and Sweet Dick Willie.
What I’m doing with my life
Making the most of all endeavors and doing them all with a sense of purpose. Connecting with people.
I’m really good at
Finding fun activity options. Making playlists for people. Coming up with ridiculous jobs and inventions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a force of nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Mostly Contemporary Literature. Some favorite authors David Foster Wallace, Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Lethem. The Circle by Dave Eggers was phenomenal...

MUSIC: Lots of old soul & old obscure rock music...Radiohead, Local Natives, Little Dragon, FKA Twigs, Grizzly Bear, Bon Iver, Aphex Twin, Frank Ocean, Miguel, Cashmere Cat, James Blake, Fleeteood Mac, Kendrick Lamar, Portishead, St. Vincent, Earl Sweatshirt, Caribou, Beirut, Ratatat, Beach House, Purity Ring, Sylvan Esso, The Weeknd, Sufjan Stevens, King Krule, Neil Young, Nina Simone, Nancy Sinatra, Bob Dylan, Department of Eagles, Broken Social Scene, The Walkmen, Broadcast, Jay-Z, Kanye West, Mos Def, De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest.

MOVIES: Documentaries & stranger indie films by writer/directors like Terrence Malick, Noah Baumbach, Paul Thomas Anderson. I loved the movie 'her' and would love to talk to you about it!

TV: Breaking Bad, True Detective, The Wire, Mad Men, Louie, Broad City, Eastbound & Down, GIRLS.
The six things I could never do without
Music, conversation, movies, passion, freedom.

I know these are not specific material things so if that is more what you want to read here... I'll say women, my iPhone, a pillow, a car, chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What am I going to eat? I think a lot about human nature in general, but also what is specific and unique about people and their individual perspective, perceptions, idiosyncrasies and duality. Will I ever be able to transcend time and space. What will the world be like in 5 years? 10? 20? 50? Why do people vote against their own self-interests?
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about!
You should message me if
Are into taking chances and look forward to new experiences & adventures. You think you can keep up with me or at least want to try!