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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 26
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Likes dogs
My self-summary
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Nicknames Include: Kermit, Jitty, Jittness, Jitterbug, Carlos, Buford, Beeker, Masonic, Sergio, Mos Jef, el jefe, Sparklebear and Sweet Dick Willie.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making sought after mix playlists for friends. Asking questions and follow up questions. Giving recommendations. Engaging in long conversations. Intimacy. Absurdity. Irreverence. Telling anecdotes or esoteric details about almost any topic. Coming up with totally ridiculous made up jobs. Finding activity options. Writing funny postcards.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not naked or that I'm bespectacled.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle - Haruki Murakami, A Naked Singularity - Sergio De La Pava, Infinite Jest - David Foster Wallace, Either/Or - Soren Kierkegaard, Strong Motion - Jonathan Franzen, Fortress of Solitude - Jonathan Lethem, Mothterless Brooklyn - Jonathan Lethem, The Power of One - Bryce Courtenay, Steps - Jerzy Kosinski, The Heart Is A Lonely Hunter - Carson McCullers, The House of God - Samuel Shem, Fork in the Road - Denis Hamill, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao - Junot Diaz, Wake Up, Sir! - Jonathan Ames

MUSIC: Radiohead, Local Natives, Little Dragon, FKA Twigs, Grizzly Bear, Bon Iver, Aphex Twin, Frank Ocean, Kendrick Lamar, Portishead, St. Vincent, Earl Sweatshirt, Caribou, Tune-Yards, Miike Snow, Beirut, Ratatat, Caetano Veloso, Beach House, Purity Ring, Sylvan Esso, Jorge Ben, Sufjan Stevens, King Krule, Neil Young, Nina Simone, Nancy Sinatra, Bob Dylan, Department of Eagles, Broken Social Scene, Menomena, Old Obscure Soul, 60s French Pop, Wolf Parade, Sunset Rubdown, TV on the Radio, Broadcast, Public Enemy, Madvillian, Murs, Jay-Z, Kanye West, Mos Def, De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest, Gold Panda, Mux Mool, Javelin,

MOVIES: I watch a lot of documentaries and can recommend tons. I like movies by Stanley Kubrick, David Lynch, Terrence Malick, Paul Thomas Anderson, Alexander Payne, Hal Ashby, Noah Baumbach, Wes Anderson, Spike Jonze, Sophia Coppola, and the Coen Brothers. Pretty much most movies with Bill Murray or Jack Nicholson.

TV: Breaking Bad, True Detective, The Wire, Mad Men, Louie, Broad City, Eastbound & Down, GIRLS, Silicon Valley, The League, Workaholics, The Gong Show.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, conversation, movies, passion, freedom.

I know these are not specific material things so if that is more what you want to read here... I'll say women, my iPhone, a pillow, a car, chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What am I going to eat? I think a lot about human nature in general, but also what is specific and unique about people and their individual perspective, perceptions, idiosyncrasies and contrasts. What will the world be like in 5 years? 10? 20? 50? Why do people vote against their own self-interests?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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Are into taking chances and look forward to new experiences.