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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 28
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Polyhistor. Sapiosexual. Unconventional.

Interested in sincerity, absurdity, vulnerability, individuality, curiosity, intimacy, innovation, discovery, irreverence, critical thinking, imagination, insight, inspiration & dancing.

Nicknames include: Kermit, Jitty, Jittness, Jitterbug, Carlos, Buford, Beeker, Masonic, Sergio, Mos Jef, el jefe, Sparklebear and Sweet Dick Willie.
What I’m doing with my life
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Making the most of all endeavors and doing them all with a sense of purpose. Connecting with people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding fun activity options. Making playlists for people. Coming up with ridiculous jobs and inventions.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a force of nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Mostly Contemporary Literature. Some favorite authors David Foster Wallace, Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Lethem. The Circle by Dave Eggers was phenomenal...

MUSIC: Lots of old soul & old obscure rock music...Radiohead, Local Natives, Little Dragon, FKA Twigs, Grizzly Bear, Bon Iver, Aphex Twin, Frank Ocean, Miguel, Cashmere Cat, James Blake, Fleeteood Mac, Kendrick Lamar, Portishead, St. Vincent, Earl Sweatshirt, Caribou, Beirut, Ratatat, Beach House, Purity Ring, Sylvan Esso, The Weeknd, Sufjan Stevens, King Krule, Neil Young, Nina Simone, Nancy Sinatra, Bob Dylan, Department of Eagles, Broken Social Scene, The Walkmen, Broadcast, Jay-Z, Kanye West, Mos Def, De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest.

MOVIES: Documentaries & stranger indie films by writer/directors like Terrence Malick, Noah Baumbach, Paul Thomas Anderson. I loved the movie 'her' and would love to talk to you about it!

TV: Breaking Bad, True Detective, The Wire, Mad Men, Louie, Broad City, Eastbound & Down, GIRLS.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, conversation, movies, passion, freedom.

I know these are not specific material things so if that is more what you want to read here... I'll say women, my iPhone, a pillow, a car, chocolate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What am I going to eat? I think a lot about human nature in general, but also what is specific and unique about people and their individual perspective, perceptions, idiosyncrasies and duality. Will I ever be able to transcend time and space. What will the world be like in 5 years? 10? 20? 50? Why do people vote against their own self-interests?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about!
You should message me if
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Are into taking chances and look forward to new experiences & adventures. You think you can keep up with me or at least want to try!