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34 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 26
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I was raised in California by two New York natives, so when push came to shove I moved back east.

I like big ideas, and the sussing out of such ideas with smart folks over good food or strong drinks. I try to be the one who won't let you forget your big ideas in the morning.

A British designer who I adore once said to live your life so that it makes for a great story, in retrospect. I think that's good advice. I'm restless, and I try to err on the side of interesting.
What I’m doing with my life
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Building the future, and usually pulling it out of the oven before it's fully baked. I enjoy my work, and I think that's important; I'm kind of baffled by people who work just so they can do something else.

I recently sold my first company. There will be more eventually, and in the meantime I'm trying out new ways to do things until I'm ready for that.

Books, bikes, bourbon, boardgames. Other things that begin with B.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I hate choosing favorites, tho I understand why this is useful.

How's this:
I like genre things and strong aesthetics. So, fantasy, sci-fi, and horror, period drama, and stories constructed with similar tropes.

I used to find that the best way to relax after a long day was to watch a horror movie. But video games and television tend to do horror better than movies these days. I love video games, but these days I don't usually finish them.

I'm terrible at music, it's a part of culture that I always feel behind on, for good reason. Ask me about it, and give me something to listen to. I'll give you some podcasts in return.

I love television, because TV is awesome right now, and I really enjoy complex, long-form storytelling.

My books line up with my TV and movies, tho they also include some nonfiction, mostly about NYC history and urbanism these days.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Technology, media, storytelling, how they intersect and how they're changing. How the 21st century seems like it will unwind a lot of the 20th century, and what happens then. The aesthetics of everyday life. Accouterments of masculinity.

Oh and adorable animals on the internet. That's like 30% of every day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The same thing we do every night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I fucking hate yoga.
You should message me if
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I need to know
If the world says it's time to go
You're not afraid to break out