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36 M Sebastopol, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:17am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I have a wide range of interests :
Science/nature, art (drawing, woodworking, animation, game design), music(listening), gardening, cooking, hiking, running, yoga/qigong/gongfu, and thought.

I enjoy teaching and have a lot of fun most of the time. Kids are hysterically funny. They can be annoying too but so can adults.

Art and creativity are part of my daily life. I create a lot of visual art , design board games(my side-job) , write, and animate (when i have the time). Notebooks get a lot of use. I like to write down ideas and sketch when kids think I am doing some serious teacher shit.

I also love to cook. I can make a really wide variety of stuff(vegetarian) but my specialty is Rustic Italian. I generally only eat natural, healthy foods and I particularly enjoy using ingredients that I grew or foraged for. I have been a vegetarian for about 25 years but I am not especially strict or overly snobby about it.

Friends also tell me that I have a great but often subtle sense of humor and that I can make people laugh.

I like to spend time outdoors and I have been really enjoying trail running lately. I also enjoy hiking, mushroom/berry hunting, climbing, and cycling. I like to play soccer and the odd game of tennis too.

I'm looking for a sincere, healthy, and lasting relationship which involves a solid friendship and some common interests. A relationship which brings new interests, enjoyment, and fulfillment to each others lives. I gravitate towards other creative people who are open-minded and smart.
What I’m doing with my life
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Teaching 1st and 2nd grade. Artwork. Designing a user friendly mushroom hunting guide. Helping plants grow. Running on pleasantly shaded trails. Designing board and card games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking/baking, designing board games, helping plants grow, appreciating beauty, teaching earthlings, drawing and art stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Huxley, Gaiman, Hesse, Tezuka, Tolkien, Clive Barker, Dave Sim, Lao Tze, Dave Boswell, Robert Anton Wilson, Kazuo Koike, Mark Leyner, David Foster Wallace, Don Chin, Bob Burden, Alan Moore, Grant Morrison, Eastman and Laird, George R.R. Martin ...etc.

Music :(i dont like to categorize music into ambiguous genres so here's a list) Fila Brazilia, Kraftwerk, YMO, Tangerine Dream, Cal Tjader, Coldcut, Tipsy, Gong, Aphex Twin, James Brown, The Cinematic Orchestra, Tycho, Four Tet, Genesis, Grateful Dead, Magma, Chick Corea, Can, Al Di Meola, Parliament, Jaco Pastorius, Captain Beefheart, Boards of Canada, Camel, Curtis Mayfield, Yes, Medeski Martin and Wood, Bela Fleck, Os Mutantes, Roland Kirk, Baden Powell, Shpongle, Infected Mushroom, Fela Kuti, Zappa, Einstürzende Neubauten, Pulsar, Senor Coconut, Squarepusher, Estradasphere, Ozric Tentacles, Hawkwind, Model 500, Lazerhawk...and lots more...

Shows : Batman (w Adam West), Looney Tunes, Futurama, Simpsons, Seinfeld, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Archer, Sealab, ATHF, Star Trek(with Shatner!), Daily Show, Dr.Who, Attack on Titan, Bob's Burgers, Shigurui, Pokemon (1st 2 seasons only), Sherlock, Fullmetal Alchemist, Cowboy Bebop, Tenchi Muyo.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to use time better. The elegance of efficient simplicity. How energy is woven into patterns and what that really means.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Stretching, creating art, listening to music. Maybe having dinner, playing games or just hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like to chant "USA USA" when I beat middle and elementary school kids at games. I also like names for cats that involve distinguished sounding titles (Doctor Von Marmalade III Esquire?).
You should message me if
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You want to be the best possible version of yourself.
You have a good sense of humor.
You value honesty.
You are willing to have fun.
You are creative and have interests and hobbies.
You have some understanding of the relationship between your
self, Earth, and the universe.(or just environmentally aware)
You see things in this profile that you can relate to.
You are not sexist or racist. I can't abide that nonsense.