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proudsolitude

39 / F / bisexual / Single

London, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5' 5" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am kind, deep, and kontradictory.

My Self-Summary

I am in a confused stage in life where a lot of values for which i have lived for are in constant turmoil right now. I have hated marriage. But, i am not sure anymore. Like the Beatles song, 'Help' is this age which is catching up? Or, is it the general idea of finding stability in life? I do not know...yet, I am not at all the believer in true romance and monogamy...thus, I feel, i contradict myself...Is it because i contain multitudes? I hope so, rather than just being plain stupid?

I’m really good at

conversations...a deep variety. analysing...from daily life to philosophical theories...

The first things people usually notice about me

my laughter...loud and boisterous. my confidence...which is a pretence. that my femininity is slightly cracked and there are slight glimpses of other selves lurking behind?

The six things I could never do without

1. communicating with people like me; 2. searching for meaning in work, life, myself; 3. a passionate romance as an idea (more than a reality); 4. a library; 5. thinking about that dream movie that i might never make or the novel that i might never write; 6. past...mine, yours, this planet's!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the complexity of each of us, my own emotions, gender in it fluid nature - both celebrating it and being its prey...

On a typical Friday night I am

usually at home, sometimes with friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i am an internet junkie,

You should message me if

you enjoy conversations