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35 F Santa Cruz, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 26–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:31am
Native American, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly other
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid

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My self-summary
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I am at a point in my life where I'm tired of the whole game of someone pretending to be what I want them to be to get me interested in them. Just be who you are from the beginning and let's see where that takes us. I won't pretend to be someone other than the woman I've grown to be. I am looking for someone who is a romantic at heart, as I am. Someone who wants to be active with me. Someone who enjoys cuddling and being close as much as they enjoy sex and physical closeness. Someone to be my friend as well as partner. Honesty, romance and friendship, that's what I'm looking for. Is that too much to hope for?

I'm not necessarily looking for something serious, but I want the possibility of something more than casual. Not interested in couples, polyerosy, polyamory, or open relationships. Sorry, no offense to anyone with this lifestyle.

I love to read, love music in all of its forms, singing especially, hiking, laughing, going to the beach, movies... always up for new things!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm going to school full time studying Psychobiology/Biochemistry and Cognitive Science, I just transferred to UC Santa Cruz in August and start first week of October. School will be demanding and I won't have a ton of free time, but I like to try to live life to the fullest and I enjoy even the little things in life. I spend most of my time at school, at work and at the gym/walking on the beach (with my daughter, she's great at supporting me).

I gained a ton of weight from misdiagnosed health issues/medications in the past few years... But finally found a competent Endocrinologist to help me regulate/fix my metabolic problems. SO, eating good healthy choices and getting in shape has become a major part of my life and I spend a lot of time working on that. I realize that my schedule is hectic but have been making more time for social interactions, I love to have fun and explore new things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping calm and taking control of stressful or hectic situations.

Singing the wrong words to songs when my lyrics make more sense.

Never cooking anything exactly the same way twice.

Having fun and improving the mood of those around me.

Being chronically a few minutes late to everything. (Nobody's perfect okay).

Making huge messes in my house in record time.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to think it was my physical attributes, but honestly -- I think people notice first how much I smile and love to enjoy life.
I'm not a super skinny person, so if you are not into thicker girls, or admit to being shallow about appearances - please don't waste my time and yours.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Game of Thrones, The Death Gate Cycle, The Thousand Splendid Sun, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Eat Pray Love, The Red Tent, The Hunger Games, The Secret, The Secret garden, Harry Potter, Kushiel's Dart, The Runelords, The World on Blood, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Singularity,
Anything written by: Edgar Allen Poe, Margaret Weiss, Tracy Hickman, Dr. Seuss, Shakespeare, Sara Douglass, Lewis Carroll, Shel Silverstein, Dan Brown, Anne Rice, JRR Tolkien, RA Salvatore, Neil Gaiman, Robert Jordan, CS Lewis, Christopher Pike.

Dune, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind, Memoirs of a Geisha, The Book of Eli, Big Fish, 50 First Dates, 88 Minutes, Black Swan, Womb, Braveheart, Cleaner, Deja Vu, All of the LOTR, Edward Scissorhands, All of the Matrix movies, Star Wars (especially the originals), Equilibrium, Good Will Hunting, Maleficient, Inception, What Dreams May Come, Interview with the Vampire, Jumper, Limitless, In Time, Lolita, Lord of War, Lucky Number Slevin, Neverwas, Oceans 11,12&13, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, Pitch Black, The Crow, Michael Jackson: This Is It, Resident Evil series, Underworld series, Stardust, The Day the Earth Stood Still, The Devil's Advocate, The Fifth Element, The Goonies, The Hobbit (the old cartoon one), The Illusionist, The Other Boleyn Girl, The Girl with the Pearl Earring, V for Vendetta, Xmen series, The Relic, The Life of David Gale, Secretary, The Princess Bride, Neverending Story, Most all Disney films before they all became CGI, Return to Oz, The Usual Suspects, The Fountain, Water World, Dances with Wolves, The Bodyguard, Indiana Jones series, and many more!

The Game of Thrones, OITNB, House of Cards, The Tudors, American Horror Story, Being Erica, Archer, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Alphas, Touch, The The L Word, Queer As Folk, Big Love, In Treatment, Lost Girl, Sherlock, The Good Wife, The Sopranos, True Blood, House, Bones, New Girl, The Middle, Scandal, Switched at Birth, Grey's Anatomy, How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory, The Mindy Project, Master Chef, Drop Dead Diva, Dexter, Lost, Mad Men, 4400, Weeds, Lie to Me, Law & Order (especially SVU or Criminal Intent), Fringe, Revolution, The Killing, Cougar Town, The Event, Flash Forward, In Plain Sight, Louie, Mental, Breaking Bad, Breaking Amish, Medium, Parenthood, Combat Hospital, The X Files, Tin Man, Dollhouse, United States of Tara, Damages... you get the idea...

I like to try all kinds of food...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Amazing Daughter
Experimental cooking
My Positive Outlook
An endless supply of good books to read
The Internet / WiFi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I'm going to do with my life...
Impossible and improbable situations...
Why cellphones are killing social interactions...
What am I going to do today...
What I would do if money was no object...
What I will contribute to the world...
and, losing my cellphone and keys in under a minute. Where the hell are they?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staring at my phone for hours debating what to do or who to call--ending up under the covers watching netflix because I couldn't decide.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Seeing people with lots of typos on their pages is the fastest way to make me move along. Like if someone is "Looking for their *sole* mate..." then I'm sure they will find their other shoe eventually...
You should message me if
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You're spontaneous, romantic, fun, intelligent and not too full of yourself.