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prufrock79

29 / M / gay / Single

New York, New York

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Skinny
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English

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I am snips, snails, and puppy-dog tails.

My Self-Summary

I'm slim/fit, masculine, creative, driven, sarcastic, political and intelligent. I hate shaving. I'm impatient. I'm duplicitous but hopefully not hypocritical. I'm a good kisser. I don't think masculinity has anything to do with the size of your biceps. I have high standards and refuse to lower them. That might mean I'll be single forever but that's what good friends and porn are for.

I'd love to meet a guy who can make me laugh, make me think and turn me on. Not necessarily in that order or all at once. I don't really have a "type." I like slim, scruffy boys just as much as I like (smart) jockish guys. I would be more specific but I'm always surprised. Oh, that too - I like being surprised. Just not with bad things. Or when I'm shaving. Did I mention I hate shaving?

What I’m doing with my life

I'm an actor, musician and writer. And I run my own business.

I’m really good at

Bumping into things.

The first things people usually notice about me

You tell me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

BOOKS: The Prophet, Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs, Demian, Giovanni's Room. (Plays: Angels in America, Blood Wedding)

MOVIES: Godard, Hitchcock, De Palma, Woody Allen, Gregg Araki, Paul Morissey, Dario Argento

MUSIC: Portishead, Massive Attack, Patrick Wolf, Radiohead, The Killers, Arcade Fire, Sinead O'Connor, Hot Chip, Goldfrapp, Belly, Kristin Hersh, Final Fantasy, DJ Shadow, Barry White, Frank Sinatra, Liz Phair, Postal Service, Beth Orton, Sigur Ros, Annie, The Chemical Brothers, Deee-Lite, Bjork, Missy Elliott, Jill Scott, Jeff Buckley, M83, M.I.A., Madonna, Ani DiFranco, Bat for Lashes

The six things I could never do without

Music
New York
Sex
Reese's Peanut Butter Cups
My parents
Good friends

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Death. Sex. My future. Facial hair. Politics.

On a typical Friday night I am

Watching Bill Maher.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm more of a top.

You should message me if

you're in shape, smart, HIV- and single.