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  • Ages 25-45
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My details

Last online
Mar 22
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
My self-summary
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As the noted philosopher Rayanne Graff once said, "People throwing themselves at people is, like, the basis of civilization.”
What I’m doing with my life
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Making movies. Changing the world.

(When I was little, my dream was to be a garbage man so I could hang off the back of the trucks OR to work at the Milford Plaza because of those snazzy "Lullaby of Broadway" commercials. I am doing neither of those things with my life. Maybe this belongs in the "Most private thing I'm willing to admit" section? Probably.)
I’m really good at
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Noticing incorrect grammar and spelling.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I look younger than I am. (This is becoming less common now that I am with beard.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Giovanni's Room, Damien, The Great Gatsby, Blue Eyes Black Hair, Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs (Plays: Angels in America, Blood Wedding)

Movies: Todd Haynes, Gregg Araki, Godard, De Palma, Woody Allen, Argento, Hitchcock, Working Girl

Music: Robyn, Bat for Lashes, M.I.A., Patrick Wolf, M83, Portishead, Bjork, Liz Phair, Frank Sinatra, Missy Elliott, Jeff Buckley, The Cure, early New Order, '90s Radiohead, old school Ani DiFranco, Samantha Fox
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, laughter, my parents, my guitar, reese's products, winter (not necessarily in that order, but not necessarily not)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the people I look up to were doing at my age. I don't recommend it.

Also, I spend a lot of time thinking about whether the products we buy are designed to make things worse so that we keep buying them. Which is counter-intuitive, since we'd probably stop using them if they didn't work, but that doesn't stop me from thinking about it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably at home watching Bill Maher and regretting not making plans earlier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not on Grindr.
You should message me if
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You made it this far. And would like to go apple-picking with me sometime. Or maybe get a drink/hot chocolate first.