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  • Ages 28-44
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5' 6" (1.68m)
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Has dogs
My self-summary
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I am lazy intellectual cool with nerdy tendencies and a nice rack, which is how my profile has started for a pretty long time. I am thinking I need to flesh things out a little. Probably. I believe people can reinvent themselves as often as they choose.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I sometimes wonder what is taking me so long to change the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem solving and making small talk. Paying attention to punctuation in text messages. Scoping in and out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm running late. Again. It's probably my biggest flaw.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Switch, Outliers, Jonathan Strange and Mr. Norrel, The Devil in the White City, anything by Karen Joy Fowler. All 7 Harry Potter books, read by Jim Dale if possible.

Movies - Closer, A Few Good Men, and The Prestige.

Music - Decibully, The Decemberists, Coheed and Cambria, Death Cab for Cutie, Fiona Apple, Dido (still!), Ingrid Michaelson, and Mumford & Sons. The bulk of my audio attention is spent on podcasts, including Nerdist, Sex Nerd Sandra, Real Time with Bill Maher, The Longest Shortest Time, This American Life (of course), and Planet Money.

Shows - Current: Game of Thrones, America Ninja Warrior (Don't judge.), Silicon Valley and House of Cards (not caught up yet!)

Complete: Deadwood, The West Wing, The Wire, Dead Like Me, Arrested Development, The Colbert Report, and How I Met Your Mother (give or take the finale.)

Food - Thomas Keller Chicken, Nachos, Thai Food, Grits and Eggs, and Chicken Pear Zuccini Pesto Goat Cheese Sandwiches.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My phone, my car, room to grow, sleep, privacy, and Red Bull.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Fairness and justice, going to the gym, what other people buy at the grocery store, whether we actually need two Amazon Prime accounts in my household, and how amazing it would be if Emily Nagoski wrote a book about the chemicals involved in NRE.

Also, this one poem by Joshua Clover and this other poem by Frank O'Hara.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open to trying new things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate people who are coy on this question. Probably that I love but I feel I can't justify $50 a year so I just look at the free tour.
You should message me if
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you are confident or like mostly-confident girls. Have the hook up with a grant-making organization for non-profits that work with youth. Want to be my platonic workout buddy. Think I look familiar. Want to test out the new pick up line that you wrote. Want an opinion on pretty much anything.