Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Christian and it's very important to me that I find a new
partner who shares my faith and commitment to Christ. I attend
church regularly but I'm not religious. I'm about as far from
religious as you can get.
I'm a father of 4 children: 3 boys here in San Diego and a daughter
living in Florida attending U of F. I have primary custody of my
boys and they live with me. Two of my boys play competitive soccer.
Because of their busy schedules I can usually be found on a soccer
field somewhere in So Cal. We watch a lot of soccer, mostly English
My favorite vacation spots are Maui and Disney World. My favorite
city in the world is London. Locally I like La Jolla, the Gas Lamp,
the Wild Animal Park, and the desert. I enjoy going to the movies
and stage shows.
I was born in Indiana and went to Purdue University.
For over 20 years I was an independent software consultant, working
mostly for fortune 500 companies. That allowed me to work all over
US and abroad (England, Japan, Canada, Mexico). I've worked and
lived in Chicago, Gaithersburg MD (outside of Washington DC), Tampa
FL., and Woodcliff Lake, NJ.
Since I received custody of my boys I took my first full-time job
in 20 years.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Turning 3 outstanding boys into 3 outstanding men.
I play golf when I can, try to get to the gym 2-3 times a week. I
have a men's group I attend weekly. Movies, dinner with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job - I'm a software engineer.
Being a father - taking care of my children is one of the
greatest joys of my life.
Working with my hands - I was raised on a small farm and
learned to use tools at an early age. There is little I can't fix
with the proper tools.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- J.R.R Tolkien
, Robert Heinlein
- LOTR, Time Enough for Love, Stranger in a
Strange Land, Atlas Shrugged.
- Avengers, Iron Man, I enjoy Action /
Adventure movies as well as Mysteries.
Favorite TV Shows
- The Big Bang Theory
, and Doctor Who
. I also enjoyBlacklist
and Downton Abby
I have eclectic tastes in music and the artists I listen to vary
wildly. I enjoy multiple genres from Blue-Eyed Soul, Celtic Fusion,
Jazz Fusion, and Progressive Rock.
I enjoy cooking
Chinese and Thai food. Especially Thai, I like my food spicy and
hot. On cold/cool evenings I make a mean pot of Chilli
with Cornbread that the boys
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Good Woman
... and a whole lot of other things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids and their futures
My future and what is next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home preparing for the weekend.
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