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  • Ages 48–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Yesterday – 9:26pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a Christian and it's very important to me that I find a new partner who shares my faith and commitment to Christ. I attend church regularly but I'm not religious. I'm about as far from religious as you can get.

I'm a father of 4 children: 3 boys here in San Diego and a daughter living in Florida attending U of F. I have primary custody of my boys and they live with me. Two of my boys play competitive soccer. Because of their busy schedules I can usually be found on a soccer field somewhere in So Cal. We watch a lot of soccer, mostly English Premier League.

My favorite vacation spots are Maui and Disney World. My favorite city in the world is London. Locally I like La Jolla, the Gas Lamp, the Wild Animal Park, and the desert. I enjoy going to the movies and stage shows.

I was born in Indiana and went to Purdue University.

For over 20 years I was an independent software consultant, working mostly for fortune 500 companies. That allowed me to work all over US and abroad (England, Japan, Canada, Mexico). I've worked and lived in Chicago, Gaithersburg MD (outside of Washington DC), Tampa FL., and Woodcliff Lake, NJ.

Since I received custody of my boys I took my first full-time job in 20 years.
What I’m doing with my life
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Turning 3 outstanding boys into 3 outstanding men.

I play golf when I can, try to get to the gym 2-3 times a week. I have a men's group I attend weekly. Movies, dinner with friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job - I'm a software professional - a craftsman.
Being a father - taking care of my children is one of the greatest joys of my life.
Working with my hands - I was raised on a small farm and learned to use tools at an early age. There is little I can't fix with the proper tools.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite authors - J.R.R Tolkien, C. S. Lewis, Robert Heinlein, Terry Pratchett.

Favorite books - LOTR The Hobbit, Time Enough for Love, Stranger in a Strange Land, and Atlas Shrugged.

Favorite movies - Avengers, Iron Man, I enjoy Action Adventure movies as well as Mysteries.

Favorite TV Shows - The Big Bang Theory, The Walking Dead, BBC - Sherlock, Downton Abbey and Doctor Who.

Favorite music - I have eclectic tastes in music and the artists I listen to vary wildly. I enjoy multiple genres from Blue-Eyed Soul, Celtic Fusion, Jazz Fusion, and Progressive Rock.

I enjoy cooking Chinese and Thai food. Especially Thai, I like my food spicy and hot. On cold/cool evenings I make a mean pot of Chilli with Cornbread that the boys really love.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Jesus Christ
My kids
A Good Woman
My Friends
My Church
... and a whole lot of other things
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My kids and their futures
My future and what is next
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home preparing for the weekend.