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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:44am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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If you think drama is for the stage and screen, and best kept out of real life - then keep reading, we may be in sync.

I'm stable, goal oriented, exercise regularly and practice a healthy lifestyle. I don't believe that relationships complete people; rather I believe that we each bring characteristics and talents that complement another in such a way that it makes the experience more interesting and fun. I'd like develop that relationship where there's that connection on all levels - physical, intellectual, spiritual.

I'll enjoy stimulating conversation, various outdoor and indoor activities,...hiking, cycling, festivals, museums, concerts, day trips, and anything water related. The Kennedy Center, Wolf Trap, and CO Canal are favorite spots. But I think when there is that mutual connection, even an afternoon at Motor Vehicles can be fun. OK, probably not that one.:)

I am attracted to someone who is confident enough to make eye contact, can be in the moment, and has a sense of what really matters in life and love and what doesn't. If this sounds like you, I'd welcome an opportunity to get to know you better. Either way, I wish you the best in finding someone that makes your heart sing.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to be fit mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually. Contributing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Have always been very athletic, and particularly good cardio endurance activities, e.g. rowing, cycling. Plus, anything requiring logical analysis, must be the engineer in me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall, pleasant smile, calm, easy going demeaner.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies - Anything by Kubrick, Terrance Mallick, Hitchcock, early Scorcese, Indie and foreign films
Books - Tolstoy, Mailer, Tolle, Kafka, Thich Nat Hahn. Used to subscribe to NY Times and Wash Post but now read online (have to think the economics doesn't look good for news print.)
Music - Live jazz and blues, Classical, Dylan, Kristofferson, Leonard Cohen, Kate Bush, some 70s to 90s, no heavy metal
Food - Thai, sea food, healthy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I wouldn't really put it that way, I think it best to rely on our own inner resources than any outside things. But a high priority list would be ... exercise, meditation, nature, compassion, healthy foods, humor.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Will think about whatever I'm reading, and whatever plans are to be made. But best not to overthink things. I've heard about 98% of our thinking is repetitive stuff - which can get in the way of our experiencing life in this moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Can vary, often winding down after work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In the 9 items or less line last week, not only did it turn out I had 11 items, but while waiting I found myself thumbing through a tabloid that included an article speculating about Brad and Jen getting back together.
You should message me if
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I love getting messages from anyone interested, of course. More likely I'd be messaging you ... and if you see the potential of mutual attraction, interests and chemistry, I'd love to hear back from you.