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42 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:22am
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Curiously adventurous explorer looking for someone to accompany me during my excursions and keep me out of trouble, or better yet, find some trouble with me!

Though goal-oriented, I'm a pretty laid-back person, and when life throws too many lemons at me, a nice hike or bike ride is enough to make some (cherry) lemonade.

I lean towards the silly and sarcastic end of humor. If you enjoy teasing, witty battles, double entendres and nonsensical tangents, we could probably banter until someone's mouth runs dry.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I own a bicycle rental/repair in North Beach. It sucks up a lot of hours but at least I'm the king (of my teeny tiny) pond!

Outside of the shop, I like to hike, bike, gaze at art, have a couple brews with friends, draw, listen and play music, eat good food and explore. You know, cool stuff that people like us like to do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I will slay you with my origami skills and ability to hike up any mountain. Plus I'm pretty handy with a screwdriver (and not just the vodka kind).

Oh yeah, I can fix bikes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My wit that's like a brick through a window, cracking smiles .. and hopefully not causing too much damage.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like to watch documentaries, action, comedy and musicals.

As for music, I tend to gravitate towards (indie) rock and bluegrass. I currently have Jack White, Neko Case, Radiohead and the Avett Brothers on heavy rotation.

Also, I know I'm listed as "straight", but I have a not-so-secret man-crush with Ira Glass. Don't be jealous. I've been there since the beginning.

I will eat anything .. at least once. I'll even eat things I dislike to recheck that I still don't like it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Guitar, iDevices, backpacking gear, bike, a good pair of shoes, and peanuts. Lots and lots of peanuts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to increase the size of the pond in my teeny tiny kingdom.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking cherry lemonade and eating peanuts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I saw Milli Vanilli "live" in concert. Good thing Tone Loc opened for them. Please forget you ever read this.

And what does JFK, Katniss Everdeen, Thomas Jefferson, Gandalf the Grey, and I have in common? We are all sexy INTJs.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are active, enjoy being romanced, are a good communicator and like (cherry) lemonade as much as I do. Common interests would be great, but for me, it's more about the compatability, chemistry and timing. The rest is negotiable!