Hello one and all! To my friends from college, I was known as Psychobunny... for a bunch of lettuce and some carrot juice I might be persuaded to tell you the tale. Like any Bunny worth it's fur, I am happiest while nurturing and caring for those that are a part of my warren.... that's Bunny family for those who may not be aware. Time with family and friends is a big part of who I am. Whether playing games with my kids or hosting a BBQ, it just sets my cotton ball tail twitching with joy. Good food, good spirits and good company are the key to life.

These days I am looking for friends, for new experiences, and possibly the occasional play partner.

I am psychobunny on FetLife. If you are on there, send me a message.

The Meyers-Briggs profile shows me as INTJ. Yep. That is spot on.

I am working on improving my life, starting with my health and happiness. To that end I ask that you keep the drama to yourself. I can go to the theatre if I need any.

My wife and I have been married for 18 years, and have opened ourselves to connections with and love from others. I have been encouraged by a number of people, including my wife, that I need to focus on myself and figuring out what my wants and needs are, both in and out of the bedroom.

One may think that I am in a mid-life crisis, I prefer to say that I am learning to embrace the otherwise sublimated aspects of my personality and to engage in activities that are of interest purely to me. The wife and I are full-disclosure and I can provide a means for messaging with her if there is any questions about my status. We are friends and do love each other.

I am known to be witty, snarky, a good listener, and life adviser. I have a way with technology and am the tech support help desk for several friends and family members.

I can remember random movie and TV lines and quote them often.
Random TV line for 2/17/13: "That is the kind of skullduggery one expects at computer camp."
Message me if you know the show.

Puns, witty repartee, plays on words and in general being a step ahead of the conversation so that I can insert (in)appropriate humorous comments.

Good food, good spirits and good company are the key to life. I can grill up a kick-ass tri-tip, portobello mushrooms and asparagus. I am also quite the mixologist and concoct some tasty cocktails. By filling tummies and pouring strong drink, plus being a helpful soul, I pave the way for others happiness.

My blue eyes...whoops now they are green...now blue again.

Others might be blinded from the glare of reflected light from the dome.

Favorite Authors include:
Robert A. Heinlein, Douglas Adams, Tim Ferris, Terry Pratchett, among far too many to list here. I like to read science fiction, comedy, and things about technology and the people involved in tech.

Favorite movies:
White Christmas, Royal Wedding, the original Star Wars trilogy, The Big Lebowski and other Coen Brothers' films, James Bond films (especially the Sean Connery and Daniel Craig ones), and again, too many others to list here.

Favorite TV shows:
Not too much here... I tend to watch things once they are on Netflix. Currently following: Weeds, Sons of Anarchy, Drop Dead Diva, Breaking Bad, BSG, Joss Whedon's shows and many programs like Top Gear (the British version), How It's Made and others.

Favorite music:
All of it...but I gravitate toward classic rock, jazz, bluegrass and the blues. Snarky Puppy, Here Come the Mummies, Pink Floyd, Jellyfish, Golgol Bordello, Regina Spektor, Dave Brubeck, Steve Martin and the Steep Canyon Rangers are all current favorites.

Favorite food:
Flavorful foods and spicy attract me. Indian, sushi, Mexican are top of my list. I like to grill and make a mean grilled tri-tip. I am trying to be Paleo by limiting processed food and eating mostly fruits, veggies and meat.

Favorite Adult Beverage:
The Mai Tai. Not that sweet, fruit juice laden concoction that you might have had in Hawaii or some bar. I am talking about one made from Vic's original recipe. Tart, yumminess.

- A hot grill
- Sunglasses
- My Android phone, tablet, laptop and the Internet
- Carrots
- Beautiful spring days
- Good friends to eat what I grilled and bring me refreshing beverages as I cook.

Writing the next chapter in my life.
Choices made and to be made.
Audiovisual and technology stuff.
Things kink, poly and BDSM oriented.
Music and how I would record/produce things differently.
How to write an introductory message that might elicit a response rather than being relegated to the stacks of messages that most ladies get from other men.

Hanging out at the homestead with the offspring or attending Pink at Mission Control. I would love to have other things to do...hint.

I write songs. Silly songs. Songs so sophomoric that you will either love or hate them. Topics range from lost love (Porno (I Wish You Were Here)) to adult stores (Key West Store to the tune of Margaritaville) to vasectomies (The Fixture: A Requiem). I promise that I wash my hands afterwards.

-you want to meet a person who has not been featured on COPS or a talk show.

-you would like to collaborate on song or story writing
-you are kinky
-you are poly
-you would like to meet a nice gent over coffee or a drink
-you like museums and/or the beach
-you just want to chat

Feel free to message me! I do not bite...very hard at first.

Bunny points will be given for intelligence, humor and excellent Language Arts skills.

If I don't seem to be your cup of carrot juice, all the best to you in your search.