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30 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 17
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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"We can stack the odds in our favor, but we still wake up everyday and roll the dice"

"It's good to have fun, but it's more fun to be good."

My two mantras in life essentially...^^^

I teach and play the drums for a living. I'm fortunate to be able to apply my passions towards my career as well as influence some very amazing kids along the way.

I don't enjoy sitting in one place for too long and much prefer moving around and having no down time over leading a complacent lifestyle. I used to be a competitive rock climber and I've never had a job with a chair so I guess the need to move around is a bit built in at this point.

I enjoy experiencing museums, nature, live music, dive bars, and places beyond where i live and work. All in all, it's about enjoying life and moving towards continued happiness and constantly seeking knowledge.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a musician and music educator. I also write/arrange and perform music in addition to my studio of private students.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh
Playing in time
Cleaning/accomplishing projects
Back rubs
Exposing people to music I know they've never heard of
Doing dishes
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably the fact that I'm almost always wearing something green, or how young I look for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Catch-22, Life of Pi, Into the Wild, Atlas Shrugged, Dune, Hiroshima, Slaughterhouse Five, The Stranger.

Movies: Momento, Primer, The Big Lebowski, Snatch, The Nightmare Before Christmas, Atonement, The Fifth Element, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, The Boondock Saints, Burn After Reading, Resident Evil. newest Batman trilogy, Shawshank Redemption.

Music: Galactic, 3 Melancholy Gypsies, J. Cole, The Aggrolites, The Black Keys, Pat Metheny, Rebelution, Jay-Z, Meshuggah, Steve Reich, Mumford & Sons, Animals as Leaders, Periphery, Imogen Heap/Frou Frou, Soilwork, Shpongle, Warm Brew, Living Legends, 311, Debussy, Chopin... The list goes on

Shows: Breaking Bad, House of Cards, Orange is the new Black, Modern Family, Comedy Central, Dexter, Weeds, Ultimate Fighter, Lost, Sons of Anarchy, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Blue Mountain State, House, Lost, Heroes, Enterouge, Lie to Me
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- the opportunity for expression
- musical exploration
- tasty food stuffs
- melted cheese
- opposable thumbs
- sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can further myself as a person, musician, and educator.

And what's to eat?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on the season I suppose. Variations include:
-BBQing with friends
-sleeping for an early Saturday
-in the middle of nowhere or somewhere big on a tour bus somewhere in the country.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I tear up at almost any well directed father/son moment.

I also really enjoy Antiques Roadshow.
You should message me if
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You want to get something different in your life. :-)