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30 M Islington, UK

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 19–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), German (Okay), Latin (Okay), Ancient Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I can think of no better date than a quiet, comfy, skill exchange. Everyone involved gets to improve themselves, and passions are shown off. I love it.

I've been told that the above says a lot about me as a person.

I'm Dave, and I'm a nerd-of-most-trades. I build things, I make things work, I ensure that things stay working, and I put things back together if they break.

I take pictures, build things, and pick locks for fun.

I tweet as @syn, and blog about about geeky crap, feminism, politics, caffeine, and property minimisation, at

I am generally fuelled by a mixture of whimsy, mischief, and caffeine.

My party trick is making the sound of water being poured into a glass with my tongue.

Tag cloud, for the search-inclined:
Identity: white, straight, cis, male
Personal: geek, engineer, lockpicker, kinky, true switch, sci-fi fan, writer, blogger, coder, photographer
Politics: intersectional feminist, socialist, left-wing, liberal, co-operative, rationalist.
What I’m doing with my life
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Engineering and Internets. Lots of Internets.

Going into the dog park.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Things that depend on semiconductors.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, I've got long blonde hair and I've got metal in me. I get overexcited about things that everyone else seems to find mundane. I adore ill-advised 4am adventures.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - anything by Neal Stephenson or Robert Rankin gets my brain-meats juicy. I should probably like William Gibson - but, to my eternal shame, his writing style annoys the crap out of me. I also love to slurp up textbooks, simply because I really enjoy knowing stuff. And, most importantly, not 50 Shades of Grey. Awful, horrible, downright rapey book.

Movies & TV - sci-fi, fantasy and horror are my genres of choice - more sci-fi than fantasy, though. I love anything that tries to mindfuck the viewer, especially if time travel or alternative universes are involved. I think, after about 30 viewings, that I've finally got a handle on most of what happens in Primer.

Music - EBM, industrial, some metal and old-school hip-hop. Chap-hop, particularly Mr. B and Elemental, is a guilty pleasure too.

Food - I'm completely useless when presented with anything spicy. Other than that, I'm usually up for it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Reasoned debate
Technology that I can fiddle with
BDSM / Kink
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The right thing to do. Politics. New projects.

Oh, and owls. I fuckin' love owls.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home; working on code, writing, or stuck in a Wikipedia loop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not really a very private person when it comes to what I do and what I like. The really personal stuff - well, that you'll get to know as you get to know me.
You should message me if
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...we have stuff in common. Or even if we don't, for that matter - I love a good debate, as long as it doesn't turn personal.