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ptashkanc

45 F Raleigh, NC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 9
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm smart (though not always so much with the common sense), laidback, and love to laugh. I will warn you I'm more than a bit sarcastic but 99.9% of the time it is meant as nothing more then a joke. I think people who use it as a form of passive aggressive communication ruin it for the rest of us.

I try to spend as much time outdoors as possible, especially at the coast. I'm more in to the arts then sports, but you can't live in NC without becoming a college basketball fan. I like spending time with interesting people who can teach me something.

Like many people say, I find it difficult to describe myself, but its as much true in person as it is in trying to write this. Rather than explaining to people who I think I am, I'd prefer for them to make their own conclusions.
What I’m doing with my life
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I just recently moved to Raleigh to try to jump start my career. I was a Town Planner and then worked in fundraising but, alas, neither field is booming with opportunity. I was thinking a bigger place might equal more jobs :) I'm also going to take some urban design classes at NCSU. I'm really excited about that!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a pretty good cook, but taking care of the important people in my life is my biggest strength. I'm also told I'm a great listener and have other hidden talents.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I act (and somedays look) much younger then I am. I've never had kids or been married so I've never had to take on that level of responsibility. Its definitely made a difference in my lifestyle when compared to other women my age. That wasn't the plan but things don't always work out the way we'd like.

I also appear to be very conservative when actually I'm much more bohemian. I've never made any money because I've always been more interested in serving the people then having a nice car. I'm perfectly happy living like a graduate student though it would be nice to live in a place with both a great bathroom and a great kitchen.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
There's not enough space to answer this question...but I will tell you my cat's name is Fitzgerald. My interests are so varied and this shows in my taste in books, movies and music. I'm open to most genres though I do draw the line at movies depicting aliens fighting dinosaurs.

My favorite food is usually whats in front of me - friends joke that I should weigh at least 200 lbs! But I can also be a bit picky. There are some flavors I can't bring myself to appreciate - fennel being the biggest. I also have this thing about texture, I don't know why, its just there :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, good wine, great conversation, laughter...hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people aren't kinder to each other
How I'll be able to afford a '67 Impala while working for a non-profit
What my cat is thinking when he wakes me up laying on my chest stroking my jugular with his paw
Why I am always 5 minutes late for work
If I'll ever get to live on the coast
Having a real garden
Playing music again
An eggplant colored couch
How much I miss my dog
Why people prefer texting to talking
So many more...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since moving to Raleigh most have involved Netflix and a bottle of red wine. I'm hoping that will change quickly. I'm finding its hard to get know people here.

What I used to be doing :) was going to plays, having dinner with friends, live music!! One of my favorite things about summer are outdoor movies in the park...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I get really cranky I hide away and read very, very cheesy paranormal romance books, and yes, I keep them hidden from visitors
You should message me if
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You enjoy new experiences and the silly in unexpected things. If you understand the meaning of honor and practice it, have a kind heart and appreciate sarcasm.