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ptotem

49 M Ajijic, Mexico

My Details

Last Online
Jul 4
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In person, I am invariably likeable, easygoing,and diplomatic. This does not mean, however, that I am malleable or have no opinions.

I am honest and have been told I'm easy to talk to. However, I abhor superficiality, and in all the important relationships in my life, I strive for a real and intimate connection.

I was incredibly fortunate to grow up in a liberal household. My parents instilled in me a drive to pursue my dreams, to never stop learning and to think critically about the world and the people in it. Perhaps because of this I have developed a passion for global sustainability, and more recently an interest in alternative communities.

Being a writer makes me an extremely critical reader. I read a lot of books. However, for pleasure I invariably gravitate to speculative fiction novels. I also love to watch movies. I enjoy action, drama, and comedy equally well, the only unwavering criterion being that the movie must be smartly written. And when it comes to music, I like all sorts, including rock, alternative, folk, pop, big band, and metal. However, I can barely tolerate country.

I am sincere, polyamorous, and a peacemaker
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a writer with a number of published science fiction and fantasy novels under my belt. That said, you've likely never heard of me.

I also have a day job as a content professional in the tech industry. I work for a remora -- one of many companies that exist only to suck blood off the largest shark software company in the world.

I am fortunate to have two awesome kids and a fabulous partner, fennecfox, who happily shares my poly relationship philosophy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring people out. Writing novels. Editing novels. Putting people at ease. I'm honest, but not blunt. I won't offend you even if I don't agree with you.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How the world can be made a better place, and what role I can have in it. How I can fit everything I want to do into the rest of my life, and not starve myself or my children.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no secrets.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating